I am in Pennsylvania. I am looking for a female that would like to Domme and spank me (and make me her bitch in any way she wishes that we negotiate) while my boyfriend watches. You can decide to have him participate as my Dom if you desire but he will not be interacting with you in any type of sexual way at all.
submissive masochist seeking male spanker. message me if interested!
also open to women (:
Edit: don’t message me if you don’t understand consent.
If you think because I made this post I’m open to anyone and anything, you’re wrong and not welcome to message me.
Insane behavior and chats. These issues are why women do not like to enter these spaces. If you’re rejected, take it and move on.
Do NOT message me with hostility and try to ‘dominant’ me… this has caused immense discomfort and you’re ruining this for everyone.
Hope springs eternal, as the saying goes. Still hoping to find an Aussie spanker 😊
Looking for an experienced disciplinarian/genuine spanko who enjoys providing spankings, corner time, and aftercare. I enjoy the whole structure around discipline, as it is an essential part to me as well as the spanking itself.
I would like to find a domestic discipline relationship, but appreciate that may be rather difficult; so, happy to meet a spanker on a casual basis instead.
Ages 25 to 45-ish only please - happy to explain why.
Please understand this is not about BDSM/impact play. It is non-sexual spanking to provide real life discipline, although I am open to something more developing with the right person. Please don't DM me if you just like slapping a bum as a foreplay/sexual thing. I only want to connect with other 'true' spankos.
Looking forward to hopefully chatting more with the right person. Thank you ☺️
I can host! LA area. Need an OTK spanking and belting badly. Please make my ass red and raw and make me cry. I deserve it. I’ve been a brat. Message me and let’s exchange photos :)
📍south Austin, Texas 😭Everyone is in DFW or doesn't read.
Not hookup. Please read the entire post and don't waste my time 🤞
Be open to actual dating that might lead to a primary partner or relationship thats heavy on authority imbalance(D/s) and spanking. Minimum be open to Close Play partners where felt safety has been built is an option.
You should be between 29-50, -not a fuck boy, -read bios, -IN AUSTIN, -confident but not arrogant, *able to hang with me conversationally -thin/fit/average/a little extra okay, -verbal, -quirky but have your shit together, -actually open to dating if the connection is there, -Open to ENM(zero tolerance for toxic relationship stuff).
A mix of nurture and sadism, firm but understanding, and hopefully eventually okay with tears, but after a lot of felt safety is built.
If you have facial hair, please be well kept. Good hygiene and teeth. I know what's inside is important, and also that attraction still plays a part 🤷♀️ it is what it is.
I am complex in mind 🧠 but a simple & easy-going partner.
We all have our faults, but I'm confident in myself as an amazing partner, g/f, & lover.
Intelligent, educated, emotionally aware, and endearingly awkward. I 💚 animals, learning, growth, creativity, & seeing you for your true self. That can be intimidating to some. Be curious and want to see and know me, like I will you. Treat me first as a human, Seduce my mind as well as my body 🤤 Let's get intoxicated by every Oz Of each other .
I give off garden gnome/artsy librarian vibes- 40, 5'2", thicc/plus, INFJ, brown hair and eyes, "Quirky",empathetic, & kind of Demi with endless curiosity. Partial photo of me on bio feed.
Not trying to force anything. I want to let it evolve naturally- chemistry, growth, adding value.
Hardcore introvert & need a chill extrovert to adopt me🥺🤞
*kink/BDSM/power exchange I am submissive & it feeds my soul. Even slave tendencies for the right person. I am not a newbie at all. Less experienced folx welcome, but not looking to be your sole source of education, and prefer someone with some experience.
I need both the mental and physical stimulation. It's not just the act.
I am into a vast vast array of things depending on what energy my partner pulls out of me, but heavily leaning on the power imbalance, some domestic discipline. I am very service oriented, dedicated, and loyal, but have zero left in me to deal with users, manipulators, flakes, etc.
OTK, lecture, roleplay, tears, correction, absolution, felt safety.
My relationship style varies. Often, shades of ENM. You can be ENM or Mono.
⭐Dom ≠ asshole or adding to the Orgasm Gap due to apathy.💥
Seeking: -Reciprocity & effort! (I'm tired, y'all) -Creativity -Healthy Connection -Authenticity -To nurture & be nurtured -Passion -Intimacy -Playfulness -Affection/touch/sensuality -Understanding -Support -Guidance & Discipline -Encouragement -Emotional availability -Duality
# **Message me about something specific to my bio and not something that could be cut n paste, where you are located, age, things about you as a person, physical description and be prepared to send a photos (even if not your full face yet).
NO- just your age, height, and "hey wanna chat" isn't enough.
So I want this to be so so clear. I truly mean platonic. Nothing more than a teacher giving out discipline. Looking for genuine conversation and have strict boundaries.
Look forward to hearing from you!
Hi,
Im looking for a couple to spank me in the bay area. I have a very high pain tolerance, and love bruises that last for days. My favoring spanking "tattoo" that I got was a crescent on my lower back. It just faded hopefully someone could give me another one or a different shape.
Hi I’m a spanko who is currently looking for a new spanker around the Scranton/ Wilkes Barre area. Must be safe and experienced, prefer someone vetted if possible. Please put some effort into your message if serious
Looking for a one-time disciplinary spanking for infractions that I made when I didn't meet my own personal goals. Wanting it to be very severe.
I'm currently living in Thailand, but I travel frequently around other Asian countries and occasionally visit Europe.
I'm looking for a strict mentor who can provide structure and discipline. I'm interested in parental-style spanking as a form of discipline, without any sexual undertones. I'm also open to a DDLG dynamic.
I have some experience with spanking dynamics, but I'm looking for something more meaningful, long-term, and consistent. I'm not interested in spanking for its own sake—I want it to be a natural part of the relationship. Aftercare is very important to me, as is mutual respect. I'd also like the dynamic to extend beyond discipline itself, with everyday interactions reflecting our roles, for example, addressing you as "Sir" or using similar honorifics. I'm not looking for an equal relationship, because I believe that the one giving discipline naturally holds the authority within this dynamic.
I'm generally an active, friendly, and easygoing person, although I can be a bit of a brat or occasionally act spoiled, so don't put your belt away too far!
I'm 159 cm (5'3") tall and weigh 45 kg (99 lbs). I'm not Asian, if that matters as Thailand isn't my home country.
Outside of the dynamic, I enjoy reading and watching horror movies. We'll probably get along much better if you're a polite, well-educated, and thoughtful person.
Hi I’m looking for a male in the Houston area to give me a good spanking if you’re interested let’s chat more.
If moderate or hard spanking sounds good, dm and let's see where it leads. Based in the SW. Semi regular would be ideal. I'm also interested in meeting a hiking partner for walking adventures and outdoor spanks
Writing this for a friend who is too chicken to get on Reddit herself. Seriously! She is a very pretty blonde / 35 yrs old. She needs a daddy to guide her and set expectations. When she breaks rules or doesnt meet them she needs to be spanked with paddle. Age range 40-60… must be single. Im protective of her. She is fragile. Get past me to get to her. This is for real.