u/SoFLDuo

31 F here. Wife part of this account.

For a long time, my husband and I talked about exploring things outside the “normal” boundaries—swinging, MFM, even the idea of me being a hotwife. At first it was just talk, something playful and exciting between us. But over time, it became more than that. It turned into curiosity… into something I actually wanted to feel, not just imagine.

And then there was the pool boy.

I had noticed him before, of course. It’s hard not to notice someone who’s right there in your space, especially when you already have those thoughts in the back of your mind. I didn’t plan anything at first, but I can’t pretend I wasn’t aware of the attention, or that I didn’t enjoy it.

That day, I knew exactly what I would do if the opportunity came.

I was out by the pool in my bikini -thong for those of you that care, and I made sure he noticed me. Little things—how I moved, how I positioned myself, the way I looked at him. It wasn’t accidental. I wanted his attention, and once I had it, I didn’t pull back.

The flirting became more obvious, and before I knew it, we smiling nervously, before I asked him to help with tanning lotion (typical, yes lol). My back, my neck, shoulders, and I made sure I asked him to go all the way down to my ass.

He massaged, grabbed, and even slapped. We didn’t go all the way, but we definitely crossed a line I had only ever imagined before.

When I told my husband, I was nervous—but also honest. This was something we had talked about for so long, and suddenly it wasn’t just fantasy anymore. It was real, and I had taken that step.

I’m still processing how I feel about it… but I know one thing for sure: that moment sparked something in me.

K is a guy that hubby and I met at the gym probably a year or so ago.. at the time, we had only had FFMs but talked through the MFM/hotwife the idea quite a bit.

Hubby could immediately tell I had a thing for K and little by little we got more comfortable together with the idea..

We then happen to run into him while having dinner at a local restaurant and hubby could tell I was super into him (i was a few drinks in by then and he looked 🔥 lol). We end up having a few drinks all together that night and him/hubby exchanged numbers.

Fast forward to some more flirting at the gym and he straight up asked me if I was available/had an open relationship..etc. so i dance around the subject until i spoke with hubby and we agreed to let him know we are open to me playing with him and to lay out our basic ground rules..

Finally, we set up a night (Friday) where we met for drinks downtown and hubby had booked a room at a hotel nearby so we can just bar hop and end up in the room if all goes well.

Everything was awesome and we didn’t make it past the first bar lol we were already getting a little handsy so we end up walking back to our room. I think this is when it really hit hubby (and maybe i should have checked in one more time at that point) but i was too caught up in the moment (and could feel K’s size through his pants) and we all end up in the room. Again, i think hubby thought we would check in once more in the room before play (lesson learned) but i was on my knees the second we got in and was eager to see what his cock looked like in person. We were playing into the BBC thing (K said it’s a major turn on) and I could tell hubby was slowing down so i called him over while i started sucking on K and started blowing them both. I think he relaxed there and it was all good from there.

It was the most amazing night ever. K and Hubby took turns, switched spots… and when hubby tapped out, K had me to himself for a good while and I was hooked.

Here’s what we agreed on/realized once we reconnected and debriefed:

- Always check in, and do it consistently throughout the night (I failed at this but will do better next time)

- Make sure you and hubby are going at the same pace. I got too excited too fast but then brought him back in & he told me that made a big difference for him!

- Connect afterwards and be honest with eachother.

K is a guy that hubby and I met at the gym probably a year or so ago.. at the time, we had only had FFMs but talked through the MFM/hotwife the idea quite a bit.

Hubby could immediately tell I had a thing for K and little by little we got more comfortable together with the idea..

We then happen to run into him while having dinner at a local restaurant and hubby could tell I was super into him (i was a few drinks in by then and he looked 🔥 lol). We end up having a few drinks all together that night and him/hubby exchanged numbers.

Fast forward to some more flirting at the gym and he straight up asked me if I was available/had an open relationship..etc. so i dance around the subject until i spoke with hubby and we agreed to let him know we are open to me playing with him and to lay out our basic ground rules..

Finally, we set up a night (Friday) where we met for drinks downtown and hubby had booked a room at a hotel nearby so we can just bar hop and end up in the room if all goes well.

Everything was awesome and we didn’t make it past the first bar lol we were already getting a little handsy so we end up walking back to our room. I think this is when it really hit hubby (and maybe i should have checked in one more time at that point) but i was too caught up in the moment (and could feel K’s size through his pants) and we all end up in the room. Again, i think hubby thought we would check in once more in the room before play (lesson learned) but i was on my knees the second we got in and was eager to see what his cock looked like in person. We were playing into the BBC thing (K said it’s a major turn on) and I could tell hubby was slowing down so i called him over while i started sucking on K and started blowing them both. I think he relaxed there and it was all good from there.

It was the most amazing night ever. K and Hubby took turns, switched spots… and when hubby tapped out, K had me to himself for a good while and I was hooked.

It will be fun when I run into him at the gym next lol