u/SocratesOnTop

It's been some time since I've been actively in the dating scene here, but I'm hoping there are still some actual humans reading these posts. My type is a little specific. I tend to gravitate towards women who are academic nerds and would describe themselves as sapiosexuals. I know it's a little niche to find someone in this camp, but I'm always optimistic when it comes to looking for diamonds in the rough.

I'd love to find things that excite us both. For me, that historically includes: tease/denial, light bondage, sensory play, and orgasm control. It's not a hard list and frankly I feel like kinks are icing on the cake to what I want to find: mutual desire to explore Dom/sub dynamics.

Outside of BDSM, I have a variety of interests and I'd love to chat about yours. While far from an exhaustive list, I especially enjoy: documentaries, nonfiction, being in nature, NYC fun facts, museums of all kinds, and podcasts.

A couple of things upfront: I'm only open to fellow singles and I'd like you to know that I'm not physically imposing (5'5", ~150 lbs.). Also, be prepared for lots of vanilla comments in my profile full of NYC hot takes. It's not a mistake that I posted on this profile. I just use it sparingly for nsfw posting.

If this feels like your vibe, I hope you'll take the big step of sending a message. Extra bonus if you're in the city too.

TL;DR: I'm still searching for that partner with whom I can share both deep intellectual conversations and play in the realm of BDSM. I tend to gravitate towards women who are academic nerds and would describe themselves as sapiosexuals. Building upon things I've learned that I think would be helpful to know upfront: I'd prefer if you're single and I'd also like you to know that I'm not physically imposing (5'5", < 150 lbs.). I know it's a little niche to find someone in this camp, but I'm always optimistic when it comes to looking for diamonds in the rough 😄

I'd love to find things that excite us both. For me, that historically includes: tease/denial, light bondage, sensory play, and orgasm control. It's not a hard list and frankly I feel like kinks are icing on the cake to what I want to find: mutual desire to explore Dom/sub dynamics.

Outside of BDSM, I have a variety of interests and I'd love to chat about yours. While far from an exhaustive list, I especially enjoy: documentaries, nonfiction, being in nature, NYC fun facts, and podcasts.

I'll be upfront in saying that I think a serious relationship is unlikely to start with this post. Ideally, we form a great connection and get to explore our kinks in the process. It's not that it's impossible to go to something serious, but I don't want to lead you on thinking that this is the immediate intention. I'd like to just see how things go and let anything progress naturally.

If you're not in NYC, I'm also open to chatting and seeing how things go. I love to travel and do it often for work, so you never know 😄