u/Soft_ServeBoy

How and why did you get into chastity? What appeals to you and/or your partner about it? I’d love to hear some of your stories.

Here’s mine:

I’m pretty new to chastity, but what got me into it was finally accepting my total bottom desires for the first time in my life. Then I stumbled across chastity here on Reddit and got curious. After reading some posts and watching some chastity porn, I decided to get myself a cage, and it was wonderful. It felt so natural wearing it.

What really attracts me is that when I’m wearing a cage, I can focus much more clearly on sensations from my ass. This has made sex with my partner much better. On top of that, it makes me feel much more submissive and reinforces my identity as a total bottom. The more I wear it, the more I realize that I don’t need my penis during sex or rather, I don’t want it involved in sex.

I’m pretty new to chastity and it’s only a 3rd day of me being locked (I take it off at night but quickly put back on when I wake up).
How do I work up to the permanent chastity in the future? I’m not sure my boyfriend is interested in that, but I want to be ready for longer lock periods. How does one do it?
Thanks in advance!

I’m quite new to chastity cages and only got my first one a couple of days ago. It’s a OK fit, not perfect but lasts through the day. I was wondering how one can downsize to a flat or inverted cage? The whole premise of chastity cages for me is to eliminate my penis from the equation in sex and flat/inverted cages sound perfect for that. Thanks in advance!