finished my finals today and for the first time in months i feel like i can finally turn my brain off :D
probably going to spend the night cumming so many times i forget i have a brain at all
wishing you all a very happy thursday :)
basically as title states!! just wondering
its something i always feel self-conscious about simply because im sapphic bc i feel like its too straight-presenting. this issue is just further complicated because i feel like it implies i’m a pillow princess? which not that i’m not. but i also like to give too.
idk i be anxious lol
im literally no better than a man rn like i am WEAK how do you all deal with this all the time.
like i feel like i got shot with a horny ray or something
hi friends yesterday i made a post about my longterm gf & i breaking up. after sitting with it for a bit i realized i was more sad about being alone than i was about losing her which i suppose meant the relationship was over before it was technically over.
which i feel guilty about. but. whatever.
anyways. i know this sub has a no advertising rule so i’m hoping this post is allowed.
but!! i’m asking if anyone has had any luck on any other subreddits with connecting with other wlw/sapphics. not in like a dating sense but as friends or chatting buddies. it seems like most are very hetero or focused more on sex than just making connections.
i’m not the type of person to just randomly message folks but i would genuinely love to get more invested in the kink scene and making friends within the community.
any advice would be much appreciated :)
hi friends :c
idk if this is allowed here but i am just so distraught and not sure what to do with the feelings
our sex life had been basically dead for the past eighteen months or so and was pretty hit or miss basically. this was a culmination of me being unsatisfied by the sex life and some issues in the relationship.
a few months ago i mentioned opening the relationship for both of us because i wanted us to be able to have our sexual needs met even by people outside the relationship. we didnt end up going through with this but she never said it was a point of contention or anything.
i just. aah. what do i do. is it wrong that part of me is relieved that its over.