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Me (31) and my sub (26) have been together for about 2 years.

I work away from home in the mining industry on an 8:6 roster (8 days on, 6 days off).

We recently started doing permanent chastity and he’s been insatiable when I’ve gotten back from my time away.
The build up is ideal for me aha but he’s been struggling.

The issue is he’s been waking up from his hard-ons against the cage. Progressively more and more as my 8 days away goes on.
When he’s been freshly fucked he seems to manage better. We discussed maybe getting him some toys to get him through the week that I’m away.

Thoughts included a prostate vibrator, a dildo from the shop, or making a clone a Willy.

I wanted to get some opinions on the best way to proceed and whether there’s alternative options for helping him sleep through the night.

Me (31) and my sub (26) have been together for about 2 years.

I work away from home in the mining industry on an 8:6 roster (8 days on, 6 days off). I used to work close to home as an electrician but started doing mining so that I could afford for my boy to not have to work.

He’s a housewife but is also studying.

We in the last 4 months or so have gotten into chastity, it’s always been a “there’s only one dick in this relationship” type of situation anyway but we wanted to try something new and it’s been really good fun for us both.

initially he wore it just during sex but then it was the whole day. He has recently gone about 3.5 days and that only really stopped because I had to go back to work.

we’ve discussed maybe making it a permanent thing but unsure how to do it safely especially when I’m away for so long.

hopefully you guys have some advice.

Are there any tips for building him up to longer wears?

How long it takes to get there?

Should we have a couple types of cage?

Should we build in rest times etc?

For context:

he is uncut, thicker than average when soft but normal length, somewhat low hanging balls.