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Me (22F) and my boyfriend (25M) have been together for 2 years. He has given me oral 4 times in that timespan (only for a couple mins each time) I have had to ask for it. I am just wondering if this is normal and if I should have to ask for it every time? I guess I’m just saying it would make me feel good if he initiated it himself. I’m just looking for other people’s opinions and experiences with having to ask or does your partner just do it without you having to ask?

It makes me feel a bit sad to be honest. I wish he would just do it automatically, like I do when I go down on him, majority of the time he does not need to ask me for me to do it. It just seems to be very one sided and it’s very frustrating.