u/Specialist_Vanilla_7

31 [M4F] Beginner looking to explore Dominance and submission with the right person. #NYC

Hello all!

I’m posting here to send out my intention of finding the right person to explore the above mentioned. I have always wanted to explore submission within the context of BDSM for a wile. I’m quite inexperienced with all this stuff, but I have attended events in the past such as: munches and a BDSM fundamentals class.

Although I’m new to all this, I’m very open and receptive to trying new things. I’m very ready to learn and to listen to any potential partner who may be interested.

I’m looking for a an in person connection, and not interested in any online dynamic. Preferably I would like us to start off as friends, before anything happens I really like to get to know someone, and become comfortable with them. I would like this dynamic to end up romantic and long term as well. Ideally I would like someone who is between the ages of 24-35 but it’s not a dealbreaker if we really seem to get along.

I’m an artist by trade, I’m actually perusing a graduate degree in art, so I could become a professor. My biggest goal in life is to live off my art. Whether that be selling work, teaching, or working in a shop. My ideal first meeting would be at a museum then some coffee and lunch.

When it comes to kink, I would rather discuss this once we get to know each other more. But as a general I like bondage. When it comes to hard limits, I really don’t like intense pain, both physical and emotional. But this can be discussed later as well.

When it comes to my looks, I’m of a slim build with medium length blonde hair, and blue eyes.

Feel free to reach out if you’re interested in chatting! I won’t move to a different messaging app or give out my number until I’m absolutely sure though.

Thank you for reading!

reddit.com
u/Specialist_Vanilla_7 — 10 days ago