u/Specific-Incident-74

Bi mwm, wife knows, encourages and corrupts me.

She loves to finger my prostate and plays with toys. Her fantasy is to blow me while i get fucked.

Here is the dilemma. I have graduated from the beginner level toys, toy small, no enjoyment

We have 2 toys we play with regularly

1. Double headed dildo

2. 9x4 inch dildo.

I can take the anal end effortlessly and enjoy it

The larger end or larger dildo, gets past the outer sphincter but both get hung up at the inner sphincter, even after the smaller anal end.

I try a TON of poppers, tons of lube and bearing down/relaxing.

When it gets through, its like a gliwing hot poker KILLING me

Any suggestions