58 [F4M] #Colorado #CO #Chicago #Anywhere – Submissive seeks Sapiosexual Soft Daddy Dom for IRL LTR
Intelligent, educated, articulate, affectionate submissive who drives a Subaru Forester (way to stand out in Colorado, am I right?!) seeks same in Dominant for good times across a range of activities.
Note: Dom does not need to drive a Subaru.
TL/DR: Listen, I know it’s a shitshow trying to find a partner. It’s exhausting. It’s discouraging. It’s fucking crazy at times. Some days you may feel that it’s just not worth it. But you know what? It’s worth it. Why? Because I’m looking for you just as intently as you’re looking for me. Because, like me, this is a NEED, not a want. Find me, Daddy. Save me from the catfishers and fuckboys. And when you do, we’ll make magic together.
ABOUT ME:
I need a kind and nurturing sapiosexual Soft Daddy / Pleasure Dom who wants a deep intellectual, emotional, and physical connection. I’m interested in a 24/7 dynamic. In addition to D/s, I’m also interested in tantra. I am not interested in polyamory—I want our focus on each other.
I’m 5’5” tall, HWP, long-ish brown curly hair with a few strands of gray (I don’t color it), green eyes and a great smile. A few years ago, I learned I was a submissive, and no one was more surprised than me! I’m smart, caring, affectionate, and funny. I’m also intense and highly focused--your happiness is my number one priority. I absolutely adore oral sex (both giving and receiving) and cannot get enough erotic talk, among other things. My hard limits are NO PAIN, no age regression, no humiliation, and no piss, shit, or blood.
Want to know more? Here’s what the reviewers think:
“She seems so much happier after she changed careers and stopped practicing criminal law.” – Former law school classmates
“She loves science and has a logical mind. Too bad she couldn’t do the math.” – Guidance counselor who recommended law school instead of a STEM career
“Sie ist wie ein Mitglied der Familie.” – Former landlord’s family (JAG stationed in Germany)
“She’s wicked smaht. I never liked that about her.” – Ex-mother-in-law in Boston, MA
“She’s fun to hang out with and we miss her!” – Tour leaders and group members from hiking trips to the Canadian Rockies (2016), Iceland (2017), New Mexico (2018), Patagonia (2019), Nova Scotia and Newfoundland (2023), and Quebec (2025)
“She orders all her dishes ‘Thai Hot’ and never breaks a sweat.” – Every server in every Thai restaurant
“We’ve never been able to stop her long enough to try any makeup, but she loves the perfume section.” – Makeup counter woman in a white lab coat trying to make it seem scientific
“She owns a ridiculous amount of lace bras. It’s really a thing with her.” – Lingerie department employees
“We really hope she can come up with a reason to wear us soon.” – All the dresses in her closet
ABOUT YOU:
Your mind is the most important thing to me. You’re intelligent, focused, curious, articulate, calm, thoughtful, and want a partner who can keep up with you on pretty much any topic, just as I do. After all, we have sex with our minds (the meat puppet just follows orders).
My desired age range is between 49 and 70. I want to have something in common with you, so I am not interested in anyone younger.
Physically, I want you to be taller than me. I need to feel that you are bigger than I am for me to feel comfortable. So, at least 5’9” tall, and reasonably fit so we can enjoy being active together. I admit that I am a sucker for a nice smile and not a fan of facial hair.
I am looking for the right mind, first and foremost, so your current location doesn’t matter. It’s just logistics, and that’s my wheelhouse. I retired early so I can be anywhere I want to be at any time. If we connect, I’ll ask for a videochat within the first few days. I also want to meet in-person sooner rather than later. I am serious about this, and you should be, too. (Note: I’ll be travelling to Chicago in the next few weeks, so if you’re there, I could easily meet in person).
If you’re still reading this, we are not a match if:
- You are a Trump supporter, Republican, or “conservative.” Because reasons. Many, many reasons.
- You are an anti-vaxxer. Because science.
Find me, Daddy. Let’s complete the circuit and try to tear a hole in the space-time continuum.
FAQ:
Q: You said no pain, but I can still spank you, right? Right?!
A: No. I do not want to be hit. My frontal cortex understands that spanking is consensual in BDSM, but my limbic system does not.
Q: You said the low end of your age range is 49. I’m in my 30’s. You’ll still give me a chance, right? Right?!
A: No, but I wish you well in your search.