42 [M4F] - #Bay Area (East Bay) - a letter to my future AP
Deer potential future AP
I am sorry, but it seems incredible hard to find you out there. But I know you are out there.
I finally reached the ripe age of 42, where if I don’t shave for 3 days you can see a combination of black and silver shine across my scruffy face. But don’t worry, a steady investment has been made to keep things neat and shaven. Likewise, I hope you are near my age, and take pride in keeping things neat and hygienic.
I am not a super model, a gym rat, or anything that is described by one category. I however do like to go to the gym, workout, on a health journey, but I also love food and enjoys spices.
Also, work has been busy. A little too busy. Sometimes I wonder if it there because I am trying to fill the void of not having you in my life yet. I expect to be busy when we start to talk, but I also expect to make time for us.
Ideally, at a minimum I have the ability to send you a good morning text, a good night text. And then catch moments in between with voice, text, or video calls to invest in us.
Food lately has been good. Travel has allowed me to indulge in kebobs in turkey, pizza in New York, cheese steak in Philly, deep dish in Chicago As long as someone uses the magic dust that makes everything spicy, I am game. But also available and willing to travel.
If you are truly meant for me, I ask that you not require 24/7 attention. Communication is key, but the focus is quality and consistency not quantity and constant.
If you like to barter, want to invest time and energy into one person, not afraid of feelings, and looking for something genuine, I hope to hear from you.
I am 5’9”, tan skin, clean shaven, tattooed, for those that it matters to.