u/SpicyKebab420

28 [M4F] #Online Fit pleasure dom seeking long-term submissive

Hey, I’m B from Germany. I’m 28, 6ft, with dark hair and eyes. I’m conventionally attractive and fit from the gym and basketball. I've been told I have a deep soothing voice and a barely noticable accent. I also have a nerdy side. I enjoy sci-fi and fantasy books, all kinds of movies/series and spending time with friends playing card or board games. I’m currently finishing my Master’s degree in mathematics.

I’m demisexual and only interested in something long-term. I'm not a kink dispenser and I'm not looking for one either. I value intelligent conversation and shared humor. Ideally, I’m looking for a dynamic that feels like a close FWB relationship with open communication, mutual attraction, and space to talk about anything, both inside and outside of kink.

This would start online with the possibility of something IRL in the future if there’s mutual interest. Physical attraction matters to me, so I prefer exchanging SFW pictures relatively early once we’re comfortable.

About Me as a Dom:

I’m a soft pleasure dom. Previous subs described me as a charming, quick-witted and leading with quiet confidence. I enjoy giving princess treatment to my sub. Attention, praise, consistency, and making you feel desired and taken care of. That said, I have no problem channeling the strict German in me and be firm when the situation calls for it.

Enthusiastic consent and negotiated rules are very important to me. Once we agree on a structure, I make sure the dynamic is consistent and safe. I understand real-life responsibilities always come first but I still expect regular communication from my sub. If you’re playfully bratty and enjoy being tamed, that’s a plus.

Kinks:

My biggest kink is orgasm control, especially edging. Bonus points if you own a controllable toy. I love being vocal during play sessions over voice calls, so expect praise when it’s earned and reassurement when it's needed. I’m very into oral (giving/receiving, spit, deepthroat).

Providing the aftercare you need is very important for me. I want to make sure you feel safe and cared for once our play sessions end. I tend to connect best with subs who are comfortable in their skin and enjoy showing off a little.

That said, I know it takes trust and time, and I’m happy to be patient and let things develop at a pace that feels right for both of us.

Other kinks I'm interested in include:

tasks, collars, ownership and objectification, overstimulation, long-term denial, light bondage, training, power exchange, spanking, body writing, free use.

This isn’t an exhaustive list. I’m always happy to talk more about kinks and limits in private.

About You:

- similar age range (20-30)

- located in European or American time zones (I’m a night owl)

- living a healthy/active lifestyle, or open to working toward one

- honest communication and emotional intelligence

- able to hold a conversation

- single and not involved with other doms

If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself and what made you think we might be a good match.

Thanks for reading. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/SpicyKebab420 — 5 days ago

28 [M4F] #Online Fit pleasure dom seeking long-term submissive

Hey, I’m B from Germany. I’m 28, 6ft, with dark hair and eyes. I’m conventionally attractive and fit from the gym and basketball. I've been told I have a deep soothing voice and a barely noticable accent. I also have a nerdy side. I enjoy sci-fi and fantasy books, all kinds of movies/series and spending time with friends playing card or board games. I’m currently finishing my Master’s degree in mathematics.

I’m demisexual and only interested in something long-term. I'm not a kink dispenser and I'm not looking for one either. I value intelligent conversation and shared humor. Ideally, I’m looking for a dynamic that feels like a close FWB relationship with open communication, mutual attraction, and space to talk about anything, both inside and outside of kink.

This would start online with the possibility of something IRL in the future if there’s mutual interest. Physical attraction matters to me, so I prefer exchanging SFW pictures relatively early once we’re comfortable.

About Me as a Dom:

I’m a soft pleasure dom. Previous subs described me as a charming, quick-witted and leading with quiet confidence. I enjoy giving princess treatment to my sub. Attention, praise, consistency, and making you feel desired and taken care of. That said, I have no problem channeling the strict German in me and be firm when the situation calls for it.

Enthusiastic consent and negotiated rules are very important to me. Once we agree on a structure, I make sure the dynamic is consistent and safe. I understand real-life responsibilities always come first but I still expect regular communication from my sub. If you’re playfully bratty and enjoy being tamed, that’s a plus.

Kinks:

My biggest kink is orgasm control, especially edging. Bonus points if you own a controllable toy. I love being vocal during play sessions over voice calls, so expect praise when it’s earned and reassurement when it's needed. I’m very into oral (giving/receiving, spit, deepthroat).

Providing the aftercare you need is very important for me. I want to make sure you feel safe and cared for once our play sessions end. I tend to connect best with subs who are comfortable in their skin and enjoy showing off a little.

That said, I know it takes trust and time, and I’m happy to be patient and let things develop at a pace that feels right for both of us.

Other kinks I'm interested in include:

tasks, collars, ownership and objectification, overstimulation, long-term denial, light bondage, training, power exchange, spanking, body writing, free use.

This isn’t an exhaustive list. I’m always happy to talk more about kinks and limits in private.

About You:

- similar age range (20-30)

- located in European or American time zones (I’m a night owl)

- living a healthy/active lifestyle, or open to working toward one

- honest communication and emotional intelligence

- able to hold a conversation

- single and not involved with other doms

If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself and what made you think we might be a good match.

Thanks for reading. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/SpicyKebab420 — 8 days ago

Hey, I’m B from Germany. I’m 28, 6ft, with dark hair and eyes. I’m conventionally attractive and fit from the gym and basketball. I've been told I have a deep soothing voice and a barely noticable accent. I also have a nerdy side. I enjoy sci-fi and fantasy books, all kinds of movies/series and spending time with friends playing card or board games. I’m currently finishing my Master’s degree in mathematics.

I’m demisexual and only interested in something long-term. I'm not a kink dispenser and I'm not looking for one either. I value intelligent conversation and shared humor. Ideally, I’m looking for a dynamic that feels like a close FWB relationship with open communication, mutual attraction, and space to talk about anything, both inside and outside of kink.

This would start online with the possibility of something IRL in the future if there’s mutual interest. Physical attraction matters to me, so I prefer exchanging SFW pictures relatively early once we’re comfortable.

About Me as a Dom:

I’m a soft pleasure dom. Previous subs described me as a charming, quick-witted and leading with quiet confidence. I enjoy giving princess treatment to my sub. Attention, praise, consistency, and making you feel desired and taken care of. That said, I have no problem channeling the strict German in me and be firm when the situation calls for it.

Enthusiastic consent and negotiated rules are very important to me. Once we agree on a structure, I make sure the dynamic is consistent and safe. I understand real-life responsibilities always come first but I still expect regular communication from my sub. If you’re playfully bratty and enjoy being tamed, that’s a plus.

Kinks:

My biggest kink is orgasm control, especially edging. Bonus points if you own a controllable toy. I love being vocal during play sessions over voice calls, so expect praise when it’s earned and reassurement when it's needed. I’m very into oral (giving/receiving, spit, deepthroat).

Providing the aftercare you need is very important for me. I want to make sure you feel safe and cared for once our play sessions end. I tend to connect best with subs who are comfortable in their skin and enjoy showing off a little.

That said, I know it takes trust and time, and I’m happy to be patient and let things develop at a pace that feels right for both of us.

Other kinks I'm interested in include:

tasks, collars, ownership and objectification, overstimulation, long-term denial, light bondage, training, power exchange, spanking, body writing, free use.

This isn’t an exhaustive list. I’m always happy to talk more about kinks and limits in private.

About You:

- similar age range (20-30)

- located in European or American time zones (I’m a night owl)

- living a healthy/active lifestyle, or open to working toward one

- honest communication and emotional intelligence

- able to hold a conversation

- single and not involved with other doms

If this resonates with you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself and what made you think we might be a good match.

Thanks for reading. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

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u/SpicyKebab420 — 17 days ago