u/StarGloop

20 [F4M] #NewOrleans Area - hoping to find something sweet & serious with someone older 🖤

20 [F4M] #NewOrleans Area - hoping to find something sweet & serious with someone older 🖤

i have posted before, but wanted to tweak this and add a hint of what i look like!😁 plus, there were a few days where messages were not loading/disappearing.

hi! hello!!

my name is kassia, but everyone calls me kass or kassie hehe. i’m 5’0, curvy but super active, brown eyes, colored hair, and turkish and korean (i can barely speak either language though)

i’m pretty new to dating overall, so this is a little nerve wracking, but i’d really love to find someone older that i can genuinely connect with. i miss the idea of having a person to get excited about, talk to throughout the day, and slowly build something meaningful with. im not into the fwb or hookup stuff.

i’ve spent the last few years mainly focused on work and school, but now that life has settled down more, i finally feel ready to put myself out there. i’m currently one year away from becoming a history teacher, which makes me ridiculously happy because i absolutely adore history.

outside of that, i love hikes, yoga, the gym, cooking, baking, art, reading, crafts, museums, music, and traveling. my music taste leans dreamy and alternative, lots of lana del rey, ethel cain, and sad pretty songs that make you feel like you’re in a coming of age movie lol. plus, korn, the dead kennedys, system of a down, chevelle, panic!, suicidal tendencies.

i wanted to keep this somewhat short, but if any of this caught your attention, tell me about yourself!!🖤🖤

u/StarGloop — 4 days ago

20 [F4M] #NewOrleans Area,, looking for an older man to romanticize life with🤍🎀

*i did post a few weeks ago, but wanted to update it a little more*

hiii!! my name is kassia, but most people call me kassie or kass. either works hehe

i’ll start with a little about me because sending a picture right away feels kinda intimidating lol. i’m korean and turkish, but super pale, 5’1, blonde hair, brown eyes, glasses, curvy but pretty fit

some things that might be deal breakers: i am a little curvey/chubby, but i am losing weight and stay active☺️ i also do smoke (medical) and drink on the occasion. i am not a stoner or drinker by any means. also, i am not looking to be a “tradwife” or have kids/relocate anytime soon. i’m also fairly vanilla, and don’t really want to change that yet. so, please don’t try to convince me otherwise🫶🏻

i’m currently in college studying to become a teacher. it’s honestly been my dream forever and something i care a lot about. i really love helping people learn and grow. teaching is a passion of mine, and i love it the more i do it🫶🏻

music wise i’m all over the place. korn, paramore, lana del rey, ethel cain, hole, fall out boy. i love anything a little emotional or dramatic lol. i tried to keep it short, this is the part that could in for a bit hehe😅

i’m also really into history, old movies, baking, late night drives, coffee shops, nature, yoga, the gym, drawing, painting, and reading anything thought provoking. i also love spending time with my doxie-pin, moonie☺️ she’s the sweetest.

i’m not looking to rush into anything and i’m definitely not into hookup culture. i like connections that feel natural, intentional, and a little exciting

i tend to be drawn to older men because i like someone more grounded and sure of themselves. calm energy is really attractive to me. bonus points if you’re sweet, emotionally intelligent, funny, and know how to make a girl feel comfortable 🎀

anywayyy if any of this resonated with you, tell me a little about yourself!! it’s easier to respond to something when it’s not just a “hey” or “m45” hehe🫶🏻

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u/StarGloop — 11 days ago

hiiii!! my name is kassia, but most people call me kassie or kass, whatever works for me hehe

i’ll start with a little about me because that feels less scary than a pic right away lol. i’m korean and turkish but super pale, 5’1, curvy but pretty fit, blonde hair, brown eyes, and i wear glasses

i’m in college right now working toward becoming a teacher. it’s honestly always been my dream and something i care a lot about. i’m very passionate about it, i just really love helping people learn and grow 🫶🏻

music wise i’m all over the place, korn, fall out boy, paramore, lana del rey, ethel cain, hole. a little angsty hehe. i love reading anything thought provoking or history related, and i’m big on movies, cooking, baking, hikes, yoga, the gym, nature, animals. i also just started getting into drawing and painting, which is fun even if i’m still figuring it out lol

i’m not trying to rush into anything, and i’m definitely not into hookup culture. i like things to feel genuine and natural.

i tend to like guys who are a little older because i’m drawn to someone more grounded, patient, and kinda steady. like someone who knows who they are but can still be playful with me 🎀bonus points if you’re sweet, and can make me laugh

anywayyy if any of this resonated with you, tell me a little about yourself!! i’d love to hear 🫧

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u/StarGloop — 20 days ago

i did post this a few days ago, but wanted to come back and polish it up a bit since i was getting a couple of the same questions.

*just to be clear: i’m not interested in casual, physical first, or dynamic based relationships. this includes bdsm, “dom/sub,” tradwife, or submissive type expectations. i’m looking for something genuine that isn’t centered around sexualizing the connection or my role in it.*

hi, hello! i’ll try to land somewhere between too long and too brief, though this may still lean a little lengthy. bear with me 🤍

i’m kassia, though most people call me kass or kassie, and either feels natural at this point. i’m 20, 5’2, curvy but very active. i’m a mix of korean, turkish, and dutch (but surprise… i just look white lol). i also have a few small, sentimental tattoos.

*i’m not super comfortable posting photos publicly, so i prefer sharing those more privately once i get to know someone a bit.*

i don’t have a super long dating history, and i’m not interested in hookup culture or sexually driven connections. i tend to be drawn to people a bit older than me, but emotional maturity, mutual respect, and genuine kindness matter far more than age. i don’t have an age cap as well.

i’m looking for something meaningful and steady. not rushed, but with real long term potential. something that feels natural, mutual, and grounded. i don’t really have a strict “type,” just someone who shows up as they are.

right now, i am looking for something long term, but i’m not in a place where i’m planning marriage, kids, or relocating anytime soon. (i’m still figuring out my career path and settling into adulthood in general.) i did have a past experience with an age gap relationship when i far too young, and it wasn’t a healthy situation, so lesson learned there.

i enjoy quieter, simple things for the most part. reading (especially classics and anything a little strange or thought provoking), hiking and being outdoors, pilates or yoga, going to the gym, cooking, baking, and picking up little hobbies like sewing or needlepoint. i’m currently in college working toward a teaching degree, and still find myself with a fair amount of free time in the afternoons. i also love medieval history, and history in general.

i’m also a big animal lover. i got a little doxie pin earlier this year, and she’s my only pet at the moment. her name is moonie ☺️ she is a doll.

i also play games semi often, mostly on switch right now. i enjoy the sims (especially medieval), skyrim, fallout (mainly 3 and new vegas), animal crossing, pokémon, tomodachi life (switch2 and ds), mario games, and minecraft here and there.

music wise, i lean more alternative: korn, fall out boy, panic!, paramore, snot, suicidal tendencies, system of a down, lana del rey, hole, and fiona apple, smashing pumpkins, blink182, among many others.

i tend to connect best with someone patient, emotionally aware, and steady. someone who takes care of themselves, has their own interests, and communicates openly. i value honesty, consistency, and a calm, grounded kind of presence, and i offer the same in return.

a few things to note: i do smoke occasionally (medical, on weekends), though it’s not a big part of my life. no expectation for you to partake, just mentioning it since it can be a deal breaker for some. i’m fairly spiritual, while still being respectful of all beliefs. i also have tattoos and plan on getting more. and i’m not big on anime either. i know, i know, but i’ve tried.

if any of this resonates, feel free to send a little about yourself when you message! thanks for reading all the way to the end🤍 i will also most likely not respond to anything low effort like a “hi”. those people tend to not read my posts, and ask the same questions i’ve answered. that isn’t an issue, but i’d like to avoid repeating myself over and over if i can help it.

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u/StarGloop — 26 days ago