First (ever) M&G, progressing forward?
Hi everyone
I recently committed to actually finding an SD after signing up to SA multiple times over the years.
I had my first ever M&G a few nights ago with a lovely man. He seems harmless, he is relatively attractive, quite young. We got along well and there wasn't much awkwardness at all. He brought me a huge bouquet of flowers also.
I am just a little sceptical. The amount he is offering for an allowance is huge. Especially for the area.
I am obviously a little concerned regarding safety etc as I have never gone through with this before. We discussed that we would like to go forward with the arrangement, we set up another time to see each other and he asked if I'd like to stay over. I haven't answered yet. I'm not uncomfortable with this sort of thing, but I just don't want to do anything that is 'uncommon' I guess?
After a M&G, what usually happens? How does the relationship progress? Is being asked to spend the night after only having had a M&G uncommon? I'm lowkey nervous that because he is offering such a large amount there is some sort of catch along the way... I dont want to be met with it suddenly.