u/Strange-Vermicelli-4

New gf is really into BDSM

Hello, I recently started seeing a girl from work in a romantic way. We’ve been going on dates and have been getting really close, we feel really comfortable with each other and last weekend she invited me in after our third date and we hooked up for the first time. After the first round we debriefed and she said it felt really good but that wanted me to be as rough as I wanted with her. We went about 7 rounds until 11am the next morning and it was incredible. I hadn’t dabbled in that type of play much before so trying all those things with her really opened my eyes I guess. We’ve been seeing each other pretty much every day since and getting more comfortable about trying more. She communicated how she likes being degraded and really high intensity scenarios, so now I’m doing research about things I could try (I was abstinent for a year and ended it a couple months before I met her so I’m out of practice). I told her I like pretty much any type of play and can do anything she wants me to try on her which she was very happy about. Does anyone have any sort of advice for me? We genuinely like each other and are moving towards a more serious relationship path in the future, so I want to make sure she’s always fulfilled in any way that might be. Thanks in advance.

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