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We have reached the point where we get enough new people every week to warrant a weekly introductions post.

So if you're new, a lurker who has never comments, or just want to say hi, come on in and introduce yourselves.

What is your role, what is your partners'?

What kind of dom, sub, or general kinkster are you?

What kind of dynamic do you have, if you have one? (Bedroom only, tpe, please, etc..)

What are your favorite kinks?

How long have you been doing BDSM?

How did you find our subreddit?

Reminder that we are not a personals or dating sub.

Got a question but don't feel like creating a whole post? Wanting clarification on something you saw here in the last week? Or perhaps you just have a suggestion for the subbreddit? Here's your opportunity!

Leave your questions in the comments below.

Happy Sunday to all!

This is our weekly off topic chat thread. Here you can share non kinky things about your week, discuss your hobbies, talk about what shows or movies you're watching, life, whatever!

We just ask that you keep discussion civil and relatively low on the politics side of things.

Here we can get to know our community outside of just the kinky things we do.

Chatter on!

Thanks to PickledTink for this idea.

This is our weekly check in!

Share a Rose, something good that happened in your dynamic or BDSM journey. Things you liked, a fun moment, something you enjoyed, something new you discovered

Share a Bud, something you're looking forward to in your current dynamic or future dynamic. This might be a goal, a plan, or something you\u2019re hoping to explore.

Share a Thorn, something that was difficult or challenging in your kink life. Something you didn't like, made you sad, or gave you stress.

Please be kind and supportive of your fellow community members.

Welcome to Book Club. The first rule of Book Club? Tell all your friends about Book Club. Lol!

This weekly event is your chance to talk about the kinky books we've read, be they fiction or non fiction!

Every week you can comment on this post about a book you've read, give it a little review, share what you liked and didn't like, and whether you'd recommend it.

For fiction, give us a little rundown of the type of kinks in the book, the domination style, and any trigger warnings that may apply.

For non-fiction, tell us whether you consider it a good resource or not, and who it might benefit (dom or sub, various types if applicable).

As this is Softer BDSM, let's try to limit books that focus on CNC, blood play, and other heavy edge play.

We have reached the point where we get enough new people every week to warrant a weekly introductions post.

So if you're new, a lurker who has never comments, or just want to say hi, come on in and introduce yourselves.

What is your role, what is your partners'?

What kind of dom, sub, or general kinkster are you?

What kind of dynamic do you have, if you have one? (Bedroom only, tpe, please, etc..)

What are your favorite kinks?

How long have you been doing BDSM?

How did you find our subreddit?

Reminder that we are not a personals or dating sub.

Got a question but don't feel like creating a whole post? Wanting clarification on something you saw here in the last week? Or perhaps you just have a suggestion for the subbreddit? Here's your opportunity!

Leave your questions in the comments below.

Happy Sunday to all!

This is our weekly off topic chat thread. Here you can share non kinky things about your week, discuss your hobbies, talk about what shows or movies you're watching, life, whatever!

We just ask that you keep discussion civil and relatively low on the politics side of things.

Here we can get to know our community outside of just the kinky things we do.

Chatter on!

Thanks to PickledTink for this idea.

This is our weekly check in!

Share a Rose, something good that happened in your dynamic or BDSM journey. Things you liked, a fun moment, something you enjoyed, something new you discovered

Share a Bud, something you're looking forward to in your current dynamic or future dynamic. This might be a goal, a plan, or something you\u2019re hoping to explore.

Share a Thorn, something that was difficult or challenging in your kink life. Something you didn't like, made you sad, or gave you stress.

Please be kind and supportive of your fellow community members.

Welcome to Book Club. The first rule of Book Club? Tell all your friends about Book Club. Lol!

This weekly event is your chance to talk about the kinky books we've read, be they fiction or non fiction!

Every week you can comment on this post about a book you've read, give it a little review, share what you liked and didn't like, and whether you'd recommend it.

For fiction, give us a little rundown of the type of kinks in the book, the domination style, and any trigger warnings that may apply.

For non-fiction, tell us whether you consider it a good resource or not, and who it might benefit (dom or sub, various types if applicable).

As this is Softer BDSM, let's try to limit books that focus on CNC, blood play, and other heavy edge play.