Any other subs with a poly dom? Today is one of those days I'm struggling with not being the only one. He has a full and busy life. We both do. But it's hard when I'm feeling sad and needing somebody and he's not there because that's not the type of relationship we have. How do you deal with the times he's inattentive?
I think I can do this. A casual dynamic. No-strings-attached kinky fun.
Finding what I actually want - a HusDom - has proven impossible. So this is the next best thing.
Kink SHOULD be fun. Not all broken hearts and crying and disappointment.
If the possibility of love is taken out of the equation from the start, this can work right? I don't know if this can work. Could somebody tell me if they've made this work?
How long after you meet online do you meet in person? What kind of precautionary measures do you take? Any advice appreciated!