Navigating threesomes and mistrust?
F- early20s.
Due to trauma (surprise) I’m pretty confident that I’ve developed a kink for being a cuckquean. It’s something I’m genuinely interested in exploring, and I don’t feel uncomfortable with the idea of it. However, I’ve had a lot of negative experiences with women my age being nice one day, then completely switching up over petty things, and I’m a bit nervous to allow another woman in such an intimate space knowing that risk.
For people who do engage in this kink- how did you meet the other lady… where did you meet her and how do you build up trust before a scene?
(EDIT before I get these comments- yes, i’ve addressed the mistrust in therapy. i just don’t want to dive into my kinks in therapy rn. also, i do trust my partner. women just make me nervous if i don’t know them super well.)