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Hi, I’m looking for more than just a Domme who tells me what to do but who will also take the lead while still making me feel understood, safe and comfortable enough to let go of my inhibitions :) I enjoy buying a woman clothes, shoes, coffee, meals. I like it when women wear leggings, sexy shoes and when women get coffee. I’m hoping to find a woman that makes it a requirement for me to masturbate so that I stay in the trance of submission. I’m hoping this woman will train me to stay submissive forever. Ideally her telling me “Indulge in my body, stroke and send baby” I want this to be consistent and long term.

Today I was told that I would get a promotion at
my job. I will get a significant pay bump and this makes me happy because I will be able to finally have enough disposable income to have a long term findom dynamic and not just random drains. I feel that being able to indulge in this dynamic long term will help me be more confident in my sexual desires because I’ll be living the life I want and need ☺️❤️ What also makes me happy about my promotion is knowing that I can finally let my guard down and let a woman keep me in a trance by milking my account and dick because I have the funds for her to manage my account for her benefit. My money will be “our” money and she will control it more and more as we build deep trust with one another 🙏💃🤤

Hi 😊 I’m a 30 year old Christian man looking for a confident, caring, and very kinky pleasure Domme who enjoys thoughtfully creating fun experiences for her me to explore and indulge in.

With my religious background, I sometimes struggle with guilt or hesitation around pleasure. I’m not looking for someone to disrespect my faith, but I would love a sex-positive woman who understands my internal conflict and can gently reassure me that enjoying consensual pleasure doesn’t make me wrong or shameful.

I’m especially drawn to a Domme who will take the time to learn about my wants, desires, boundaries, and what I’ve already explored. Two major interests of mine are pheromones and feet, so I’m looking for a woman who would genuinely enjoy helping me embrace and indulge in my attraction to natural feminine scent and my foot kink without judgment or embarrassment.

I want someone imaginative and adventurous who enjoys taking the lead, encouraging me, praising my progress, and gradually helping me work up to new experiences. I’d love for her to curate kinky experiences that make me feel safe enough to surrender, let go of my inhibitions, and explore the full depth of my desires.

Trust, communication, consent, patience, and genuine chemistry are very important to me ❤️Ultimately, I want a dynamic where I can follow her guidance, freely indulge in pleasure, and build something exciting and fulfilling with the right Domme.

I’m especially attracted to women who are comfortable embracing their natural body scent. I would love to meet a woman who doesn’t feel obligated to shower every day or immediately wash away her natural aroma. The scent that develops naturally after an active day or after going a day or two without showering is genuinely exciting to me. This isn’t about neglecting basic hygiene; it’s about finding a woman who enjoys being natural and would feel confident letting me appreciate that intimate part of her. I’m hoping that the right woman won’t be discouraged from my longer written post 😅 lol

Hi, I’m looking to connect with a soft, sensual Black Domme preferably but I’m open to other ethnicities as well who enjoys a genuine connection and mutual appreciation, I’m a 30 year old black man by the way.
I'm naturally a provider and enjoy treating my Domme to coffee, great food, shopping trips, and buying clothes and shoes that make her feel beautiful and confident. I also genuinely enjoy receiving photos of her in outfits she loves.

I have a natural scent fetish and a foot fetish, so I'm looking for someone who appreciates feet and natural scent as part of my attraction and who is open-minded and comfortable exploring those interests together. I also enjoy when a woman wears leggings and pantyhose.

If you're feminine, confident, enjoy being spoiled, appreciate thoughtful gestures, and are interested in building a real connection then I'd love to get to know you. Lastly, I would like a woman who is ok with nudity.

I absolutely love sending for coffee 😊😍 I enjoy seeing what a domme just bought with my money, it’s a huge turn on.

Hi, I’m seeking a long term connection with a soft domme who enjoys good conversations. I’ve tried a harsh dynamic and I figured out that I prefer a soft domme where a woman is understanding and patient with me and appreciates when I send to her and makes me feel good.

I want a domme that I can slowly get closer with and we have solid communication. I enjoy sending a woman money for coffee and money for shopping. I especially love it when a woman is in the dressing room and shows me what she is about to buy with my money.

Lastly I want a domme that is understanding and is into my kinks. I have a natural scent kink so I enjoy it when a woman doesn’t shower everyday, I would like it if you enjoy your natural scent. I enjoy the authentic scent that develops after a long day, including areas that many people might be self-conscious about. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable discussing and exploring that interest openly. I also like it when a woman wear sheer and leather clothing.

I want an authentic woman who will build a meaningful connection with me and not a transaction relationship even though I understand findom.

I do want a woman that will show her face and is ok with nudity.

I’m not sure if this is popular but my dream dynamic is when a Domme sees my money as “our” money and leads “our” finances. Gives me structure to help me be consistent with coffee sends, dinner sends and shoes sends. The more structure the better because it helps me stay consistent and focused on one Domme. Encouraging sending to her when edging is my favorite.