u/Sufficient-Lab-5167

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So me and my girl have been together for almost a decade. I am aware that she is a nymph. During her teenage years she got an online dom and fwb. He was someone known to us both but this dynamic for her was completely online. This was all before our relationship started.

After about four years into our relationship she told me about this past of hers. Initially I did not believe her thinking she was bluffing or just telling me a fantasy. I took it seriously only when she showed me a couple of screenshots. At that point I was a little disappointed because I did not expect this. I thought she would never keep any secrets from me. Since this was her past I let it go.

Later covid hit and lockdowns happened. We stopped seeing each other in person so our chats became a lot freakier. There was no guilt of meeting each other and regretting those dirty thoughts.

During this period our dirty chats escalated. We would roleplay crazy stuff plus threesomes gangs and stuffs which I can't mention here. She also revealed that she fantasized about having sex with that guy in front of me. She never used any term like cuckolding. Being a practical and open minded guy who believes everything is fair in fantasies I supported her. We would talk dirty about it regularly. I would help her fantasize about him and make her goon. She used to enjoy it a lot.

Then it went a step further and it was completely my fault. I am not a cuck please keep that in mind. I am kinky and open minded but not a cuck. One day I casually said why dont you try texting him again. She took it seriously and texted him. She handed over her Instagram id to me so I could read their chats.

Initially the texts were normal with nothing nsfw. But slowly after three days things started heating up. She wrote that she misses what she had with him. He replied that he misses it too but she had ditched him for her relationship. From there they started talking dirty again. They would sext and relive their old memories. He would ask her for pics but I had told her not to send any. She only sent a few sfw ones like tank tops shorts and fit checks. This continued for around two months.

Then her libido settled down. She got busy with her job and also got pcos. Because of that she remained stressed most of the time and started avoiding his texts. Things were completely fine between us. I understood the shift and stopped talking about it too. From 2021 till the end of 2024 they stopped talking completely.

I had deleted my Instagram for personal reasons during this time so her id was also logged out from my phone. Even then I would occasionally ask her if she still talks to him. She would strictly refuse saying she does not like or miss him anymore. By this time she was pcos free and completely sexually healthy. We were actively having sex as well though only bi monthly since we live with our parents. We often plan trips and staycations.

Now one evening she tells me that he has texted her. I acted neutral and said okay. I did not go into details. Later I randomly asked her what the situation was and what they talk about. She said they only talk about work and life. I did not believe her but I did not ask for her id or screenshots.

I waited for the right moment. When she was with me and sleeping I secretly logged into her id. I removed all otps and mails so she would not know. When I opened her chats I was shocked beyond words. My hands froze and I had goosebumps.

What I found was that she had become comfortable sharing her sfw pics without disappearing mode. She would send him every sfw pic that she sends me. Not just that they were back into that dynamic again. She shared her nsfw pics too but in disappearing mode. I figured this out from his comments. He would even decide what she wears on some days. The most surprising part was that she told him I am a cuckold with strong fantasies about it. In reality it was her who wanted this.

I believe this is cheating. Till date they are still in touch and talking. I have not reacted yet. She has no clue that I know. I do not know how to react. At moments I am cool with it. I find it hot that she is being this secretive while acting innocent. But I also feel disappointed because she is virtually cheating. She is very certain about not meeting him in real life and I know that but online is still not okay.

I think of sharing my girlfriend online multiple times a day. I have posted regarding the same a few times in the past as well but something turns me down. It's either because of the type of people who reaches out to me telling me all the fake stuff or something else. This feeling is not new. I'm not a new boyfriend. I've been in relationship for last 8 years and have been fantasising cuckolding since a long time.

She's aware too but I personally don't want to take this thing into reality till we marry because I want to take all the responsibilities before trying it. So for the same reason I've been trying to explore online level of cuckolding. I don't know what types of guys should I seek for.

Most of them are pseudo bulls, all the young lads thinking a cuck is a weak person and with a small penis who isn't able to satisfy his partner. This is absolutely not the case. Anyways in the past year

I have tried a couple of things such as sharing her online with a bull I found on fetlife, he was the most amazing guy I've talked to regarding cuckolding. Another guy was again from the same platform, I made him text my girlfriend and they did dirty chat for a week, not specifically cuckolding, he would tell me the details after every time they talked. Also lastly we did a gp chat too with me, the first guy and my gf regarding cuckolding for 3 to 4 days.

Finding such people is kinda impossible now. Everyone here wants to disrespect me or rush the things. They need a quick way to get off. Please tell me a better way to find such guys.

For a context, me and my girlfriend, we love threesomes equally. I love the feel and she loves the pleasure but I've been reading lately that threesome is a form of cuckolding. What do you people think?

We are a couple for last 8 years. We're looking to bring some spice in our relationship. We aren't looking for anything offline at the moment. Neither we are looking for someone to sext or roleplay. We are just looking for someone respectful yet very kinky who would like to chat with us about ourselves, our lives and give realistic suggestions to balance subtle fun. We are more inclined towards having a bull talking to us but anyone who aligns well is welcomed. Good to have is dark kinks. Do tell us about your dark kinks associated to cuckolding us (Everything is fine in fantasies). My girlfriend is also curious for sharing herself in front of me to get reviews but that would happen only if we bond well. If you've read till here then mention the word banana at the top of your dm so that I get to know that you've read this post completely. Happy cucking!

I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for a long while. We have a healthy relationship. We have good amount of sex. All in all neither of us have any complaints. However, sometimes I fantasize myself being in the cuckold relationship where I'm not really being humiliated but the other man/men (bull/s) are in charge.

These are just my fantasies but when I think normally of doing or taking things in real, I feel grossed out. In real I'm kinda possessive. I don't let her wear too much exposing clothes like she recently purchased a top with ropes behind, completely backless, massive armholes and deep neck, I didnt allow her to wear it, even though I gifted that to her. Also once we went goa, I felt very very awkward when she wore a bikini.

Is that feeling or behaviour normal?

This is kinda AMA as well as a confession. We already did 5 times on the very day we met. It was like we weren't leaving each other's bodies. We are in a long term relationship, living in same city but we don't and we can't meet that often due to some restrictions.

She was pretty tight down there but I made sure she left with a little loose hole hehe. It was fun living together, we booked a pretty bnb. We didn't leave a place where we didn't fuck, including balcony. We were on 17th floor, pretty sure we were seen by someone. She also made me try alchohol for the very first time, although I didnt get drunk but she got drunk herself and made me wreck her moist hole open. It was so fun. We had an hour long sex last night which was the best she ever had according to her. We'll leave back to our home today.

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I'll be traveling with my partner and staying with her for a week. I'm looking for an experienced bull who could guide me through candaulism and virtual tasks orientation cuckolding without directly involving her.

I'll appreciate a detailed response, including you explaining me what virtual cuckolding and candaulism is for you, so that I know we're on the same page.

Good to have is a detailed and old profile.

I'll be traveling with my partner and staying with her for a week. I'm looking for an experienced bull who could guide me through candaulism and virtual tasks orientation cuckolding without directly involving her.

I'll appreciate a detailed response, including you explaining me what virtual cuckolding and candaulism is for you, so that I know we're on the same page.

Good to have is a detailed and old profile.

Same as the title.

The reason - I'm leaving for a work trip along with my partner a couple of days.