u/SunberryPop

I'm 19, studying at NUS, and I've been thinking about posting some of my own content. Nothing professional or anything just stuff I take myself, amateur vibes, maybe some lingerie shots or more if I'm feeling it.

Problem is I don't know where to post. Most of the big NSFW subs seem dominated by guys or professional creators with huge followings. I'm just a regular college girl in Singapore, not trying to build an OnlyFans empire or whatever, just want a space where I can share freely without getting drowned out or harassed.

Any recommendations would be amazing! Thanks in advance.

I'm 19, my bf (26) has a weekly poker night with three of his poly friends. They've been doing this for years. I've always been the "little girlfriend" who brings them snacks and beer, then disappears to the bedroom. Last month my bf got cocky. Bet his entire month's salary that he'd win the next hand. Lost. Didn't have the money. His friend Jason 28, loud, confident, always staring at my ass said "your girl could cover it."

I was in the kitchen, heard everything. My bf laughed. Then stopped laughing. Looked at me. Asked if I'd "help him out." I should have said no. I didn't. Something about four men looking at me like I was the prize... I got wet immediately. We went to the bedroom. They drew straws for order. Jason first fucked me hard, called me "payment," came on my face. Then Mike, then Darren. My bf watched from the chair, jerking off, as each of his friends used me. By the fourth my bf's turn I was already full of cum, sore, exhausted. He couldn't even get hard at first. Said I "looked too used." Then he managed, fucked me while his friends watched from the doorway, came in like thirty seconds.

They've invited me to every poker night since. My bf loses on purpose now. I know he does. And I pretend I don't know. We don't talk about it. But every Tuesday I shower, shave, put on something easy to remove, and wait for them to arrive.

I think I'm becoming the group's property. And honestly? I don't hate it.

I'm 18F, Singaporean, and I've started taking the active role in seduction rather than waiting to be chosen. Here's what I've learned about why this works and what men can learn from it.

When most men approach, they lead with need. They need validation, need attraction, need the interaction to work. When I approach a man, I lead with abundance. I'm offering an opportunity, not asking for approval.

This creates an immediate power dynamic that favors me. He's not evaluating whether I'm good enough - he's wondering if he's interesting enough to hold my attention.

Most men approach like they're interviewing for a job. "Please like me, please find me attractive." Instead, approach like you're offering something rare - your attention, your interest, your time. This requires actually believing you have value to offer, which is the core work most men skip.

When I approach, I act like attraction is assumed and we're just working out logistics. This bypasses the awkward "does she like me?" phase entirely. Men can use this too - assume attraction until proven otherwise, and your behavior will create self-fulfilling prophecy.

I'm not approaching everyone. I'm choosing specific targets based on specific criteria. This makes my approach valuable - he knows I selected him, which creates immediate investment. Men who approach indiscriminately communicate low standards, which communicates low value.

Before you work on what to say, work on your internal frame. Are you approaching from scarcity or abundance? From need or from offering? Women can smell the difference, and it determines your success more than your words do.

My bf (26) has been obsessed with this idea for months. He wanted to see me "in action" flirting, seducing, being desired by a stranger while he just watched. We finally did it last Friday. We went to this bar at Clarke Quay, one of those crowded places with loud music. He sat at a table in the corner, far enough that I couldn't see him clearly. I was at the bar in a dress he picked out way shorter than I'd normally wear, low cut, basically advertising. It took maybe ten minutes. This guy, early 30s, ang moh, suit and tie like he just came from some finance job in the CBD. Bought me a drink. Asked if I was alone. I said "sort of" and looked toward my bf's corner, just a glance.

He followed my eyes, saw my bf watching, and got this smirk. "Your boyfriend likes to share?" I nodded. He didn't hesitate. Put his hand on my thigh immediately, high up, confident. We talked for maybe twenty minutes. His hand never left my leg. Then he asked if we wanted to go somewhere. I looked at my bf. He nodded. Just barely. But I saw it. We went to a hotel nearby he paid, didn't even ask me to split. My bf followed five minutes behind, texted me the room number when he got there. Waited in the hallway.

The guy his name was Chris didn't waste time. Pushed me against the wall the second the door closed. Kissed me hard, hands everywhere. He was rough in a way my bf never is. Took what he wanted. Bent me over the desk, fucked me from behind while I looked at myself in the mirror. My bf came in halfway through. Sat in the chair. Chris didn't stop, just looked at him in the mirror and said "she's fucking tight, mate." My bf just nodded, hand in his pants. After Chris finished inside me he didn't ask if I was on birth control, just assumed he got dressed, kissed my cheek, left. Didn't even say bye to my bf. My bf was on me before the door closed. Reclaimed me, licked me, fucked me, called me his "used little slut." Came in thirty seconds.

Now he wants to do it again. And honestly? So do I.

So I'm 19, my bf (26) has been complaining that I "let myself go" since JC ended. I'm not fat, just... softer. He bought me 10 sessions with this personal trainer at Fitness First, some guy named Jake, Australian, maybe 30, absolutely ripped. Bf came to the first session "to support me." Jake was professional, showing me form, correcting my posture. But I noticed him looking at me when I was doing hip thrusts. My bf noticed too. He made a joke about it after: "That guy wants you."

I laughed it off. But at the next session, my bf asked if he could watch again. Said he wanted to learn the exercises. Jake said sure. Third session, my bf started making comments. "She's flexible, huh?" "Bet she could go deeper." I was mortified but Jake just smirked and said "I bet she could." After the session my bf asked Jake outright: "You want to fuck my girlfriend?" I thought Jake would be offended. He wasn't. He looked at me and said "If she's down." I was shocked. My bf took my hand and said "I want to see it." He'd been planning this the whole time. We went to Jake's condo nearby. My bf sat in a chair while Jake undressed me. He was rough, dominant, completely different from my gentle bf. Took me on his bed while my bf watched from three feet away, jerking off through his pants.

The worst part? Jake made me look at my bf while he came inside me. Said "Your girl's tight as fuck, mate." My bf came in his pants right then. Now my bf wants me to keep training with Jake. Says he'll pay for unlimited sessions. I should feel used. Instead I'm counting down to Tuesday's session.