u/Sundae_O

Hi! I’m so use to masturbating literally like everyday (love a longgg edging sesh) and having full sharp orgasms almost everyday or at least ruined orgasms. Do y’all think it’s better or healthier for girls to deny our orgasms and avoid full orgasms? Is it better to replace full orgasms with ruined orgasms?

Ruined orgasms just feel like such a mindfuck, feeling all those emotions flowing through my clit and my body and my brain while I ruin my own orgasm on purpose. So it’s just been kinda hard to convince myself to ruin my orgasm on purpose lately but tbh I’m a pro at ruining my own orgasms and have done it a lot before.

I’m also so conflicted about ruined orgasms cause I don’t know why but there’s just something so kinky about somebody ruining their own orgasm on purpose. So I guess that’s why I’m so into ruined orgasms and find it kinda kinky to be ruining my own orgasm on purpose also.

Do any other girls feel this way about it being such a mindfuck and about ruined orgasms being so kinky? Is it healthier mentally or physically for girls to have ruined orgasms instead of full sharp feeling orgasms?

Please discuss, comment or DM! :)

So idk why but the whole entire idea of someone ruining their own orgasm on purpose is so ridiculously hot and psychologically kinky. I love masturbation, love edging, but both love and hate ruined orgasms. I’m a girl and love masturbating my clit and edging it but I def live and hate ruining its orgasm.

I would ruin my orgasm on purpose like pretty darn frequently before and got into it ever since I first started edging but it’s been just so hard to commit to doing it again and I’ve just been binging on full hard orgasms if I’m being honest cause my clit just loves them. Ruining is SUCH a mind-fuck for me.

Idk if that makes sense but it’s just been hard for me to sacrifice full orgasms for ruined ones again cause I’m also scared I’ll get hooked on ruining again and yea lol I’m kinda scared of doing that to my clit again lol I’m so conflicted.

What do y’all think is really best for my clit and me? Are there any good benefits to ruining one’s own orgasm on purpose? Thanks!