u/SurfFly

I am here for "Us" not necessarily me. I admit I am a pleaser and my day is better when the people around me are well taken care of.

He's a generous man, a generous lover and always eager to please me. That is part of our dance and some of the friction early in our marriage. Having two pleasers can be hit and miss. Discovering his desire to please and how to use that changed everything.

.....so.....

I deeply enjoy figuring out what he needs and then making it happen. Please don't read too much into this because sometimes, part of what he needs is for me to be a very selfish lover and that is part of what brings me more than a sense of balance in our intimacy.

So.....sometimes he needs it soft and romantic, that is absolutely his wheelhouse. A 6'3" massive alpha is actually a romantic. Let me tell you...that is what gives me such an expansive license..a cavas if you will...to play out my dirtiest side.

Not to go off on a side note but if he were the really dirty, kinky one, I don't think I would be having as much fun as I am....

One should take pride in finding the right buttons to push, pull...spank and yank.

A little is enough for me, but that little must be completely mine, sincere, engaging, exciting, overwhelming, fulfilling, stimulating, perverse, loving, reassuring, indecent, irreplaceable, loving and memorable. I love who we are and I love the pageantry and ridiculousness of our intimacy.

Not everything needs to be some formal scene. It does not have to be labeled. It can and should be an authentic expression of passion and joy. Climbing up and fucking him like an animal hits so many notes for me in this symphonic dance we orchestrate.

Good Morning!

Sometimes you get to play both ends.

Everytime this comes up, I just smile. I adore a bit of objectification.

Gentle is the way.....

We all need a hand.

There is this lovely moment just as I lower myself onto his face where I smile. His whole being is focused on me and bringing me to that higher place. He's useful, fulfilled, excited and happy that he's home.

His ass is mine. Say it outloud......"Your ass is mine!"

Talk dirty while you take his soul. What dirty things do you say to him?

Flowers never lie....

Life is too short to pretend you don’t want me to suck on your nipples and jerk you off onto your tummy.

Shhhh....that's it....come to momma.

Now that you are home from work, I'll need you to get hard for me. I want you hard all evening and half naked. Now go get undressed and come see me.

Tell me again that you love me but this time use no words.

Well good morning my love......

I love leading him around. How do you like leading him around?

The finest of ass deserves to be treated right. Naked and in my hands.

Sometimes he likes it gentle, intimate and romantic. Other times he needs it rough, kinky and animalistic. Being able to decipher which he needs and when is part of the art of being a passionate Sensual Dom....

Intuition is real. Vibes are real. Energy doesn't lie. Where do you find your peace?