Married hetero couple seeing escort - is it ok to bring female condoms just in case?
My husband and I have done screening and an in-person consultation with a female escort and we are excited to see her!
We talked a bit about protection and precautions and limits, and I asked about condom use. She said she uses standard male condoms.
My husband will most likely also do FS with her too, and I was wondering if having her use a female condom would make more sense so he could go back and forth between us without having to remove and reapply a condom. My husband and I don’t use condoms with each other.
I didn’t realize how difficult female condoms were to obtain (and they are only available through insurance and Medicaid doesn’t cover them, so they have to be prescribed in limited amounts through private insurance or obtained through a public health clinic). I was able to get them through a public health clinic, so I’d be able to bring them.
Is it a faux pas to bring it up? And is it considered sketchy to provide the barriers since the control is taken from her?