u/Suspicious_Delay_565

Im a 19yo guy who has had sex for about 30 times in total so far, with 2 different sexually active partners. And I've noticed an observation about myself, I don't or rarely cum during Blowjobs, or Handjobs. Even when I tried Anal sex, a couple times, I couldn't cum and could go for upto 30-40 min without any breaks.

But whenever I'm doing a PIV sex, I just can't go for more than 8-10 minutes! No matter how hard I tried. It's like a completely different feeling, and sensations all over my cock. A vagina feels softer, warmer, and more 'of life' like a jelly squished around my cock. It's so hard to not give up to the sensations and warmth of a pussy, that it sometimes breaks my confidence if I end up cumming too soon. Like yeah I do enjoy the sex, but cumming before a woman orgasms just feels wrong. I want my partner to be satisfied. But often I end up cumming within 5 to 10 minutes of a PIV.

Given I'm not someone who has daily sex, I used to have sex once a month with my then gf, but we ended up going through a long distance and eventually broke up. Now I have sex with a FWB who's in my home city, once within 3 months.

So I haven't gotten a fair amount of time to get used to the sensations of a PIV sex.

Anyone else who has felt the same way, or any advice if you've overcome a similar situation?