u/Suspicious_Rub13

My gf always gently corrects me when I do something wrong. The other day we were out on a walk and I accidentally took the wrong turn, she gave me a light slap on the ass and then pointed me in the right direction.

It’s little things like these that make me love being submissive for her. She often knows what’s going on, but she still lets me make mistakes and then gently teaches me the right way while reminding me who’s in charge and why.

She’s so much smarter than me, so our dynamic feels so natural. When she lets me lead and I inevitably mess up, she disciplines me gently and picks up the pieces. She calls this training. It’s so effective because instead of simply listening to why she is in charge of me, I get to actually experience it firsthand. She jokes that she wants to get me to the point where if she says the sun is the moon I agree.

She wants me trained so well that I look to her before anyone else, and that I have no other thoughts except the ones she puts in my head. Sometimes I get a bit bratty and forget my training but a hard fuck usually gets me back in my place. Does anyone else do this w their gf?

I find it hard to disagree with her because whenever she starts talking to me in a stern tone I just want to be bent over and spanked. Obviously, I know it’s important to talk through issues, but the way she gets a bit rougher when she’s angry about something is so hot. Besides, I find myself being much more agreeable afterwards. I guess sometimes all I need is to remember who’s in charge. Do other people in relationships feel the same way and has it helped/impacted conflict resolution?

I often hear this sentiment, but as someone submissive myself, every girl I’ve been with has wanted to be in control of me/led the experience. Idk if it’s just the vibe I give off or something, but in my experience there are plenty of dominant women. This could have something to do with me liking girls that are older than me/having a mommy kink but idk. Let me know your experience, I’m curious!

Edit: Dang ok really nobody has the same experience as me 😅. I do love hearing about your perspectives tho so keep telling me :)

Most people assume I’m dominant because I’m masculine and it’s so annoying. Like you don’t know my lifeeee. My gf literally has me on my knees saying I’m mommy’s good girl and begging for her fingers, but just because I like wearing t shirts so many people assume I’m the one in charge. I mean it’s 2026 people LETS LOCK INNN. I will admit that some people clock me, but not nearly enough. I give people no reason to think I’m dominant and yet there’s still people assuming. Anyway, I know there are much bigger problems in the world, I just think it’s kind of funny.

I’m trying to make sure my gf has an extra special time when she comes back, so any advice is appreciated 🙏.

I’m more masculine so I never realized how submissive I am til I found a girl who put me in my place like she does. I’m so grateful and I find it so unbelievably hot. We’re thinking of using a strap for the first time soon. She already really dominates me, but I’m ready to do more. Does anyone have any tips for first time using a strap? (whether to use the ones with a harness or not, what website to use, whether to buy in person, etc.) Thanks guys!