37 (F4M) #Chicago
Here we go again..
As much as I want to avoid it, I somehow always end up getting sucked back into this world. I was on AM and I have had success there in the past. But the app is trash and truthfully it has become a giant cesspool of bots and desperation. So here I am posting on Reddit for the first time.
I am looking for a real connection, one that could maybe last for years if we played our cards right. A situation based on friendship and mutual respect. In my humble opinion, sex is great but it is so much better when it’s meaningful. I am instantly turned off by unsolicited dck pics and when the conversation immediately turns sexual. So please spare me. A little goes a long way with me.
I am a professional with a very demanding job. I have a family that I care about and my schedule is typically very busy. However, with advance planning I am intentional with ensuring that I make time for the right person. If I am going to take the risk and put in the effort, I need to make sure that the person is worth it. I am very passionate and treat this just as I treat any meaningful relationship in my life. I am one who will give my all (within limits) if you catch my interest and I would hope that is reciprocated.
With that being said, I love daily conversations, phone/video calls and all of the back and forth that comes with being into each other. I want to meet someone that I can’t stop thinking about and vice versa. In the past, when I did find “the one” and felt comfortable with him, it truly was a magical experience that I am still trying to recreate. I am very careful and do my best to screen and get to know a person before I fully let my guard down. Discretion is very important to me and it should be important to you. I’m married and plan to keep it this way and you should be married/committed as well.
If this resonates with you and you are interested in a real life adventure where we stimulate each other in more ways than just sex, send me a message! Happy Sunday!