43 [F4M] #Chicago | Metal, sports, and apparently doing this now
Jumping straight in: 43f, Chicago area, tall, alt-adjacent look, midsize (~12ish). Sox fan if that tells you anything about my capacity for suffering.
Life outside of all this: live music (mostly metal and hardcore, though my taste is all over the place), sports, and being outdoors for every moment of the 4 months you can exist outside without a parka.
I want the spark. Feeling noticed, wanted, interesting and attractive to someone again. The version of yourself your partner stopped seeing. Most people here know exactly what I mean.
Not looking to blow anything up, not auditioning to be a pocket girlfriend, not chasing something complicated. Just someone in the same situation who wants to feel desired again and has the chemistry to back it up.
Preferred: similar age range, chubby/dadbod