I need some help. Post gets removed everywhere so I don't know where else to post.
TW: Anal sex
I've always had tears and bleeding from my anal opening when doing anal (and even shitting sometimes).
I recently discovered a very fat cream that seems to make it not tear when I poop at least anymore but I'm afraid it'll still tear when I have PIA sex.
I'm very petite and he is very girthy.
We use buttplugs to try stretching beforehand but I still tear...
Any tips and tricks on how to fix this?
We're both 25+ years of age if that matters.