Whoops I Autism-ed All Over the Contract
My husband and I (M/M) have been together monogamously for over a decade, we’ve always been kinky - but we collared me about 6 years ago and developed a long term power exchange dynamic.
The dynamic has gotten deeper, more complex, and more intense over time and it recently hit new levels - so it was time for a new consent contract! I’ve always been the one to write it - he comments, helps edit, suggests additions, etc - but we’ve always kept it in digital notes or apps. I know it’s not everyone’s autism, but imagine all of the autistic intensity/ hyper-fixation of porting everything into a single formal document, fixing, editing, adding, formatting…. I’ve done nothing else in my free time for 4 days.
It’s 11.5 pages long (and it needs to be).
My partner is neurodivergent but not in this kind of font, and now the new mission is to check my intensity level and go through the whole document w him so we can edit if needed as sign… and not get overwhelmed in the process lmao.
I’m genuinely so proud of it to be honest.