u/The40woman

Que c'est chiant d'être adulte !

Donc déjà il faut pouvoir caser tes enfants, vérifier que les grands parents sont disponibles, tout en demandant plusieurs semaines à l'avance... 1ere complexité.

Ensuite Mr ne doit pas travailler tel weekend. Or il travaille 2-3 weekends par mois (hôpital).

Mme doit être dans sa période chaudasse : coucou l'ovulation 48H par mois. Faut bien viser. Sinon lui caresser le minou sera aussi fou que lui frotter le genou : rien à carrer.

Évidemment, il ne faut rien avoir de prévu : l'anniversaire du meilleur pote ou le mariage de la cousine.

Enfin, habitant loin des clubs au milieu de nul part, la soirée prévue par le club doit faire envie, car ça peut couper tout le reste. La soirée année 80's... A fuir. Non j'ai pas envie de baiser sur les démons de minuit !

Voilà. Anecdote d'un couple qui a pu aller en club une seule fois en 2026 🤣

Hi. I was supposed to go to a show by a world-famous DJ with my husband, but he can't make it after all. In the pit in a stadium. It's very mainstream music, but I'm an easy audience : I like electro-pop and house, but I have a hard time really appreciating techno.

I was already planning to take MDMA, because I've been looking forward to this concert for nine months, and it's rare that I find music that suits my taste. For once, I really want to enjoy myself. I'm naturally shy, so I also know it will be difficult to let loose, especially being alone. The MDMA will really be useful for dancing, and maybe connecting with the people around me.

Have you ever taken drugs alone at a concert? Is the atmosphere conducive to it? Would you do it again?

I have two questions about possible differences between ecstasy and MDMA crystals. I know perfectly well that it's supposed to be exactly the same thing, in two different forms.

MDMA is 85% pure (the rest is salt), lab-tested. Ecstasy isn't : I have no idea about the dosage. Same seller.

For context, I started in 2024, and every 2-3 months I've always taken MDMA. I've never experienced the "magic" feeling; it's a very unstable substance, which remains quite mild compared to what everyone describes. If I had to rate it, I'd say I experience about 50% of the euphoria compared to others. Since 100mg is weak and very short-lived, my usual dose is 100mg + 100mg redose, maximum. Most of the time, I take it at electronic music festivals. My last experiences were early December, mid-March, and then recently mid-May.

Since my scale was broken, I took half an ecstasy pill at 6:30 PM (the effects started at 7 PM) and then the other half at 8 PM. The come-up was gentler : I was still incredibly cold (I'm literally freezing every time, even when it's warm), but I didn't feel overwhelmed or out of it. No nausea : usually nausea lasts for several hours. I could move around instead of being hunched over in a corner, there was much less tingling in my extremities, and I could speak normally. So I concluded that half a pill was definitely weaker than 100mg. I felt good and happy. I took the second half. The evening flew by; it was amazing—I mean, much better than usual. It felt more potent, while the come-up was much gentler. No dizziness at all.

At 2 AM, back home, I was still completely stoned and unable to sleep. So that was 7 hours. I took an anti-anxiety medication to cut the effects, and I tossed and turned for an hour before my brain finally gave up. So a total of 8 hours... stopping with a benzodiazepine.

Usually 200mg of MDMA has (minor) effects between 5 and 6 hours.

My questions :

Is it possible that the ecstasy was actually less concentrated ? And that the effects were better and longer-lasting ? For example, the pill was 160mg, I would have taken 80+80mg.

But I've already tried 100+50mg in crystals and it wasn't as good or as long-lasting.

Or does that necessarily mean there were other substances in the pill, making it more effective with fewer negative side effects ?

I should mention that I didn't experience any comedown (I never have).

I am probably neuro-divergent woman, aged 40, without confirmation (too complex and long) : ADHD or mild autism, for your information (just feelings).

Bonjour, je prévois un festival dans une semaine. La nausée est toujours présente, très forte pendant la montée, et disparait lentement jusqu'à la descente. C'est assez gênant, j'ai l'impression que ça contribue aussi à ne pas avoir envie de bouger : plus je bouge, plus je me sens nauséeuse 😅 (compliqué quand l'idée de départ est de danser)

J'ai un médicament anti nausée, à faire fondre sur la langue. Quand dois je le prendre, idéalement ? Avant de prendre la MD ? Après la MD, mais avant la montée, par exemple 15 minutes après avoir avalé mon parachute ? Ou dès les 1ers signes de la montée ?

Merci pour vos retours.

J'ai un festival prévu le 16 mai.

Est ce que c'est OK si je prends du 2CB aujourd'hui ou demain ? Par rapport à la RDR ?

Ou bien y aura t il une tolérance croisée ? Un risque d'effets atténués et de descente accrue dans 10 jours avec la MDMA ?

(Weekend en amoureux imprévu, en pleine semaine, ce qui est exceptionnel quand on est parents, donc on voulait s'amuser)