Tips? I dunno what I'm doing
Evening folks, Idk what gender this subreddit is for...but I've a question...what is an orgasm? It's something that's been on my mind for years, as 1. There's not a lot of information online for the female climax... i.e...what it's supposed to feel like, how to achieve one, how to tell you've had one...and since it seems that don't produce fluids like guys with sperm, I'm highly convinced its not real, especially when it says females can't orgasm either...
But my thing is this...after recently coming out of a 2.5 year relationship with a guy (where I don't want to share too much of the bedroom life, let's just say it was very non-existence...a little... uncomfortable...and I didn't feel heard, seen, or whatever, despite numerous amount of civil conversations,) though nevertheless I'm glad I've managed to get out of these days...
Anywho...when I was with him...I've never had one? Or so I don't know...all I remember is this peeing feeling? And I had to stop, and go pee, but it was too hard and sore to pee unless I relaxed my body...(Which itself is hard, relaxation isn't a word in my vocabulary) Could anyone describe what that really means or if I'm on the right track at least?
It's probably my fault for not doing sex myself, and relying on a man to make me climax in the first place...I understand that...but I've never found self stimulation interesting...I'm more about exploring with a man and learning about our bodies for the first time...even though...I've been told that's a disgusting way to even engage in sex. Period.
Idk, I think it's because...of the lack of information really sucks anywhere you look, and I don't know why there isn't more scientific research on the feminine body.