u/Then-Grapefruit4506

My gf is a few years younger than me and only been with me. We communicate well and have been developing longer foreplay and me giving a lot more head - which is helping her relax and enjoy it more. I can’t enjoy it if she is not so we had a big open chat a while back and we seem to be on the right track.
She’s very nervous and shy - she’s only just taken home and started wearing the underwear I got her (nothing bold etc) and she’s very happy we are connecting more.
She’s never really been comfortable touching me or giving head etc, she’s just a little shy and I think scared of getting it wrong - can I have some advice please on how to help her confidence and secondly - we are trying to experiment more so advice on toys/soft ties would be great if anyone has been in my position here.

Kindly share your fave leggings and shorts brands/styles. Want to build my collection. DMs welcome for advice.

My Gf20 and I have been together coming on two years. We are emotionally so invested and I M26 have an embarrassing amount of negativity about the fact that I am yet to finish her. She never has really played with herself etc and I’m her first guy - she’s told me she’s never really finished. I’ve tried a lot but I’m just after genuine advice on how to do this please.

So I’m not much of a writer, but this is a memory that will stick with me for a lifetime.
2 ish years ago; my ex broke my heart and ended things - we were friends for years and I was heart broken, so was she and it wasn’t easy. She had been in a headspace that she was lesbian now and she was very hurt that we couldn’t work out. We stayed friends, too close really, it was torture - meeting up to play pool and long drives, watching her, always in gym gear, and as beautiful as she is… it was agony every time but I couldn’t stop myself. We had had a very physical relationship and shared everything, now it was like we were still there but the physical side was just out of reach, I so desperately wanted to get stopped on one of the drives, after seeing her bending over the pool table all evening - so frustrated and so ready to stop the car and take her back to us on the car bonnet, eye to eye, connected like we used to be. Alas I was respectfully distant and only a few times did I slip up, once upon seeing her appearing to longingly gaze at my semi hard bulge when she wore her gym shorts to see me - the ones that made me speachless, I told her by whispering in her ear and having her lean back onto me moments later, “how could I go on not hearing her climax when she’s pinned prone full of me”. She pressed back for longer than she should have and I heard her breath shorten, feeling me getting hard between her perky perfect ass cheeks. That night was so tense I couldn’t make it home after dropping her off, I had to pull over to get my release.
I confess here, through all this, I was not able to delete all our tapes and the pics - I was so in need of her and I had to get off so often.
She, for context, is a 5’4” petite, gym fit, abs, smaller chest, strong toned legs and jiggly thick perky ass, blonde, big blue eyes, beautiful smile and perfect lips - she was irresistible. I’m 6’3” and a professional athlete, not in her league looks wise, very fit tho and confidence and happy with my body - (she looked incredible measuring up my hard on laying it on her body, it was just wild when it bulged her abs from inside… I digress).

We drifted away for about a year as she had a gf and I had to work on me. I doubled down on the fitness and she was always in my mind but Less and less intrusively as time passed. Till about a week ago - she called out the blue, I nearly didn’t answer but I couldn’t help myself. She was quiet and timid but she was obviously relieved or glad anyways that I answered. She said she was sorry - I told her it wasn’t a thing that needed said, it went quiet for a couple seconds (felt like hours) a feeling of butterflies and adrenaline built for me, till she broke the silence and said “I have to see you, pool at the usual place? I can pick you up”. I paused for a little bit and she was obviously not joking… I said “of course, you’re buying the first drink… but I’ll drive, you’ve not been here for my new truck”. She tried to keep the conversation going but I just told her to go rest up and she was to be certain about meeting me - if she changed her mind she would be forgiven by me and I wouldn’t be hurt. (News flash, I’d have been gutted). I went into the car to set off to get her after a terrible sleep and a very restless morning - I went for a run to keep my mind off it and picked out my best outfit, of clothes she’d bought me and liked, wore the aftershave she was so used to, clean truck and away I went. That drive felt like a lifetime, I was so nervous. I was going into the night just to be her friend again, but I couldn’t help but feel like I could have been given a gift from above and she might be thinking of us trying again.
When I picked her up - she looked incredible. She had been at the gym clearly and she was glowing, beaming smile, perfect hair, perfect makeup and eyeliner like I used to like her in. She had a body now that was like her old perfect figure just on the most perfect setting - still slim and chiseled but she had her ass so toned and legs like an angel. We hugged for way too long, I think she may have felt the excitement in me, just a little, she giggled and just looked me in the eyes looking up looking relieved and elated… I went speechless and we giggled at my attempts to speak. She had worn her hoody over the bra I bought her and liked the most, I caught a glimpse down the hoody and nearly buckled at the knee, it was agony hugging her to not grab her perfectly shaped ass cheeks. She was cruel, and I told her that on the drive, to wear her shape wear gym shorts… the same ones she had on one of the last times she was with me, the ones she reached back laying on her front, and drained me all over.
We got to the bar and we were instantly clicking again, I was so awkwardly trying to hide that I was just unable to look away from her when she bent over to shoot, she was so aware of me trying to hide my excitement and she walked over, looked in my eyes with the look of pure lust, sipped her drink not breaking eye contact, moved in close and discreetly put her hand on it, it got so hard I was so uncomfortable in my trousers it hardly fits, I was so solid and mind blown, she pulled my neck down to whisper in my ear. She asked “is this okay? Do you want me again? I need you again my love” I couldn’t speak. I just kissed her. Spun us round and pinned her to the wall kissing her like we were the only thing in the world. She couldn’t take her hand off me, she was so excited and breathless. I stopped kissing her and whispered in her ear that I’d missed her every day and she was so needed I couldn’t stop myself getting off every time I saw her” she shuddered and I loved so much how much she was dying for what I’d been dying for. I leant back in and whispered “you are my only need, you are dying to slide down me aren’t you” she whined and nodded staring in her eyes. I told her “I had waited so long she was going to be cumming all night just so I could hear her scream my name again”. She and I couldn’t cope.
We were on the way to the car, I walked behind her, chivalrous I know… and because I had to see her perfect ass jiggle as she paced out to the car, god how I was dying to be behind her, prone, so deep she was shaking.
As we got in the car she started tying her hair back, I was so hard knowing that meant she was dying to go down on me…. As I pulled away she started unbuttoning my trousers, telling me she had been missing my big dick and how much she wanted to be pinned under me and fucked like my toy… I was so hard it sprung out my boxers and she was delighted, she gasped a little - the fitness push had deffo made it so strong and she said “oh fuck you’ve grown… I won’t fit that in my mouth…” she heard me squeal a little when she wrapped her lips round the tip and she was moaning a little, so gentle and so perfectly she put her tiny hand round the base of it and couldn’t get more than the tip in… she came up for air to tell me she was dying to be filled so deep as she came, telling me she wanted thrown about and for me to do anything I wanted to, telling me she hadn’t had anything inside her for 6 months and she didn’t think my big cock would fit… but she has to ride me, to stop the car and get to have her.
She was carried from the passenger seat to the bonnet, put on her back, held down by the hips as I told her I had dreams of her taste and I had to hear her cum for me because I haven’t had an orgasm without imagining her sounds.
I went down on her and she shook, she gripped by hair as I held her hips down and sucked her clit till she was struggling to breathe… when she came, she came so hard I thought she had been possessed - her whole body tensed up and she couldn’t make sounds and dug her nails into my head pushing me holding me down onto her perfect pussy.
I couldn’t stop myself. I spun her round so her head hung off the bonnet, slapped her face with my rock hard cock and fingered her clit, she was told to be a good girl and she was agreeing dying to get me, I pushed in slowly and worked up till I saw her throat bulge and she came again from her clit - tensed round my cock so tight I squealed a little… she put her arms up and round my back and held my hips from behind and pushed me deeper and back and forth, I was weak, watching her make me throat fuck her…
I couldn’t stop myself, I pulled out and she gasped for air, I picked her up and turned her round, laying down on the bonnet legs hanging off… I was drooling for that ass, I spanked it and she squealed… I rubbed my cock on her pussy and she started begging me to fuck her… held down by the lower back, ass arched up, spanked and soaking for me. I grabbed her hair and held her down - pushed my cock so deep inside her she shook and moaned how massive I felt. I pushed and held it in so deep. Started so slowly agonisingly fucking her perfect tight pussy, hearing her building up again… building it up to where she was screaming through her breathlessness, balls slapping her, held down, in heaven behind her perfect ass hearing her say my name and take a fucking… she came so hard and I pushed so deep and so hard to hold it in I was hitting her cervix as she squealed… I couldn’t have been thicker and harder having her back - I was honestly shocked.
She knelt down and put her head back, opened wide, stared up in my eyes talking to me about how much she wanted me all night and how much she needed to be covered… she gripped the base and jerked me, I was knees giving way, shaking and weak… I came so hard that she had her mouth full and she kept going till she was covered. Giggling for it and still looking up, licked it clean, told me to cover every inch of her all night…

I could go on and on… basically, needed it off my chest - dm me if you’re curious and got this far.