u/ThinIceIsNice

Pretty much, Dom(m) and sub(me-f) have been going strong for months. This was my first actual dom/sub dynamic, and I was absolutely in love with his leadership and power. Now, he wants 50/50 control. I don't want that... At all. When I made it clear I didn't like that idea, and that's just a normal dynamic with extra steps, he claimed it was just a way to ask me to be on top more and he doesn't want it now, so backpeddling because he can't have it both ways. What the hell do I do? I feel like what he is asking of me is unfair, and we agreed on this dynamic when we got together.. Send help, because I feel fucking ashamed that I didn't notice and let him take control I never gave to anyone else..