u/Think-Check2003

Hey there yall, I made this post because my online Abdl friend and me are planning to wear diapers and talk over the phone soon (affectionately called “diaper time” for us) and I was curious if there was any fun games you could play in that sort of setting to make the diaper time more fun? Usually it just ends up being us drinking lots of water and seeing how long we can hold before we wet ourselves, but any new or unique ideas are welcome! I’m curious if there’s anything new we can try!

As the title suggests I’m curious if anybody has any memories which in hindsight may have hinted that you were into diapers and/or little space before you actually knew what it meant.

For example, when I used to wear pull ups for mild bedwetting as a kid, I distinctly remember loving how soft and comfy they felt compared to normal underwear. I would even lay down and change myself like I was a baby when I had to take then off in the morning. Another time when I no longer had to wear any protection, I found an old pull up hidden my dresser which I put on as a “joke” and even my mom found it funny.

Clearly I had an affinity for diapers well before I knew there was a whole kink community for it, what about you guys?

I know this is an unpopular opinion in the Abdl community, after all the general consensus is that the thicker, crinklier, and more absorbent a diaper is the better, but I just don’t feel like adult diapers add a lot for me in terms of comfort and kink versus store bought pull ups.

Don’t get me wrong, since I’ve gotten older and had a bit more cash to spend I have begun to buy genuine adult diapers. (Sunkiss Masterpiece are my go to atm) The thickness and the fact they don’t leak after a single above average wetting is amazing. But even after trying them I still feel like Goodnites are my favorite.

I just feel like they fill a certain niche for me better than adult diapers do, yes they’re super thin and barely hold anything but I think that’s part of the fun, seeing how quickly they get all leaky and swollen. I like the way they look better too, as someone who associates more with being a “middle” than a “little”, I think they’re the perfect balance between the babyishness of diapers and adulty normal underwear. Does anyone else feel the same? If you do what’s your reasoning behind it?

After scrolling through this subreddit and related ones for awhile I noticed a lot of people talk about how they got into the Abdl community/fetish as it helps them cope with some sort of trauma our abuse they faced in childhood, and regression/diapers are their way of coping with it.

This is interesting to be because I’ve never had any major trauma like that and just sorta started liking diapers…just because? I first discovered the Abdl community back when I was in my early teens, I was mostly just into the DL side of things, like how they felt, the relief/pleasure associated with using them, etc. Even as a younger kid (5-6) I remember I used to love how comforting they felt so in a sense that enjoyment has always been with me.

Does anyone else feel similar to this? Is there any explanation for why I just sorta got into this without any defining moment that would have given me an explanation? lol