u/Thr0w_Away_Anonymity

I have a bad writer's block. I like to turn my wicked fantasies into literature so others can feed their inner sexual deviants when reading it. Anywho my CNC fantasies have been running wild and as a book girly too. Also side not my partner is kinda like my own personal Joe Goldberg without the danger of me being killed iykyk. So I have A LOT of material to write with yet whenever I put that shit down on paper it's like a toddler wrote it. What do I dooo??

I recently came across a reddit community saying they have an anti kink kink and to say I'm both confused and disturbed is an understatement. All the comments about being brainwashed into accepting abuse yada yada. And how the lgbtq community and bdsm community have nothing in common and shouldn't mix. How its all just rooted in slavery's history and in oppression. None of the arguments make sense to me honestly. I sometimes forget that even though things for our community has gotten better there are still alot of people out there making it their mission to portray us as either abusers (doms) or self loathing people with a complex that we don't deserve love/better (subs)