u/ThroatFinal5732

Today while walking around a college campus where I work at, a kid called me “sir” lol.

I recently turned 29, and have a girlfriend (been together for a year and a half).

But lately I’ve been thinking about how, IF we broke up, I probably won’t fit in among college parties and (some) night clubs anymore.

If we do break up, I probably won’t be interested in serious relationships for some time. But where can a 30+ man pull casual flings if not in clubs or parties? (Dating apps have never really worked for me, so I wouldn’t put my money on those).

I love my girl, but we’ve recently noticed we might not want the same things in life. We’re trying to figure it out, but that’s got me thinking. What if I’m single again? Where would I go now?

Within the context of seduction (obviously). I'm curious.

By controversial, I'm NOT talking about things that are morally wrong. But rather advice that most people would deem innefective, yet, for you at least, it worked.

For me, it was the usage of "false time constraints", pretend there's a reason you're planing to leave ASAP so people lower their guards.