u/ThrowRAForests

So I'm sort of in a FWB situation with this guy.

We've been friends for a while and late last year we kissed and have spent a few weeks & months texting / sexting, as well as just mainly kissing & fooling around. Before we did anything he told me he was worried he'd cum quickly. I told him that isn't an issue for me as we'd still enjoy ourselves

The first time, wasn't planned. When we were making out he suggested it, and we both agreed to do it. He was on his back, I got on top and he told me not to move as he was about to cum. So it wasn't really sex, I suppose, as he just went inside, but still felt good. However, when he came he didn't look at me and just looked to the side

The next time we went into it with full intention to have sex, and he said he'd be more prepared this time. He was on top, and he went inside. As he started to thrust, he slipped out and he said he was cumming already, he went back in, but was ejaculating. As he was, he was looking at me very intensely. A very serious expression, as though he was concentrating, or crudely put, having a very difficult bowel movement... I was a bit taken aback because it wasn't really sexy or romantic. I've chalked this up to nerves maybe, maybe a loss of control and trying to hold it together

Either way, it just feels very difficult to read what he's thinking or feeling in these moments, is this often natural for men?

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u/ThrowRAForests — 21 days ago