u/ThrowRA_redditus

I was having severe difficulty getting my wife off last night. Our routine is straightforward- I usually get her to cum using a combination of hands and dry humping (and sometimes going down on her) before we actually have sex.

Last night I just couldnt get her there, I was frustrated , she was frustrated and I had to resort to suggesting she do it herself with a toy.

As she was getting into things o asked what she was thinking about but she told me to be quiet. Then she started talking, telling me about an English gentleman she met on holidays, the one with a long and very thick cock that she had told me about before.

But last night I got a blow by blow account of what he did to her while she matsurbated - I don’t even think she realised what she was saying.

Inevitability it ended in a massive orgasm , a very wet pussy and then me climbing on top and sliding inside it.

Trying to figure out who’s seen my wife …

Her brother in law - had sex with her so has seen everything

My university housemate - sex

Our groomsman - she showed him her tits once after a night out

Guy i do some work for - sex

Our mechanic - sex

Her best fiends husband - saw her topless on holiday

Good friend of mine - topless on holiday

How long have you been discussing your past: 25 years

How many partners: 80-100

How many one night stands: 40ish

How many FWB: 10

Bfs : 7 or 8

Shortest time between two guys: a day

Biggest: 8/9”

Smallest: 2/3”

Most at one time: 1

Biggest age gap: took an 18 year old virginity when she was 25

Creampie: 15-20

Swallow: one night stands and short term boyfriends (to impress them at the start)

Facial: no

Anal: no - only a finger in her ass

Does she think of other men when with me: only if I ask her to when masturbating

Over the weekend I was telling the wife’s brother that I was looking someone to tidy up our garden - he gave me the name of a guy who had just returned from America where he did some landscaping.

Quick call and the guy is due to call this evening. When I told my wife she told me there’s something I should know……

It turns out she’s fucked this guy - a one night & next morning stand when she was 25 - just before we got together.

She’d previously mentioned a guy she knew growing up- I’d heard the details of the hookup but never knew who he was. They hooked up with at a pub, went back to her friends house and they fucked - she recalls that he wore a condom , they did it doggy and he played with her asshole making her cum.

I also know that they had sex again the next morning -bare as he didnt have another condom, gave her one of the hardest fuckings she’s ever had before pulling out and cumming on her.

Shortly after that she heard that he had moved to the states. In a couple of hours he’s calling to see the job and give me a price. It’s going to be difficult not to think about the two of them together and what he did to her. I’ll soon be putting a face to the story.

That one person who just pressed all her buttons???

Mine had it with an ex boyfriend, was never a ling term option for a variety of reasons but seems to have been in a different league in bed.

This guy was a drummer in a small band that never went anywhere. I recall standing at a Killers concert one night and after a drum solo she said something about drummers being sexy as fuck and seemed to be in a world of her own

I asked if she was thinking of xxxx (her ex). I’ll never forget the look in her eyes as she just nodded and said “sorry”

Hot as fuck but stomach churning.

It was ment to be a feel good question but her answer led me down a rabbit hole of her past sex life……left me feeling like I’d missed out on a lot

“When you were happy to wait so long for sex and then putting a condom on without even saying anything. You made me feel special “

It turns out most lads wanted (and got) to fuck her straight away, and more than half of them didn’t wear condoms.

I’ve always thought my Mrs had the perfect tits. Back when she was younger a nice c cup , pert with puffy nipples that sort of pointed upwards. Really nice looking.

Ba k shortly after we had gotten married my wife, me and a couple of friends had some drinks in the house we’d just bought together.

Conversation came around to tits, with one of the guys saying that every woman had one ever so slightly bigger than the other. My wife argued that this wasn’t true and I backed her up , but my friend was adamant. I jokingly said that there was only one way to prove it - my wife said no chance.

But the guys persisted and I gave her some encouragement to the point that she stood up and took off her t shirt.

What a feeling - the three of us sitting there , my new wife standing in front of us in a white lacy bra and knowing that she was going to take it off.

She reached around and let her tits fall out. The only thing she said was “see”.

My two friends got up and took a closer look , so using and examining. I left and went to the kitchen for a beer , by the time I came back they had agreed that that one was indeed slightly bigger. My wife was pissed.

She put her t shirt back on and changed the subject. They asked to see them again several times since but it was a one night only viewing.

I’ve always thought my Mrs had the perfect tits. Back when she was younger a nice c cup , pert with puffy nipples that sort of pointed upwards. Really nice looking.

Ba k shortly after we had gotten married my wife, me and a couple of friends had some drinks in the house we’d just bought together.

Conversation came around to tits, with one of the guys saying that every woman had one ever so slightly bigger than the other. My wife argued that this wasn’t true and I backed her up , but my friend was adamant. I jokingly said that there was only one way to prove it - my wife said no chance.

But the guys persisted and I gave her some encouragement to the point that she stood up and took off her t shirt.

What a feeling - the three of us sitting there , my new wife standing in front of us in a white lacy bra and knowing that she was going to take it off.

She reached around and let her tits fall out. The only thing she said was “see”.

My two friends got up and took a closer look , so using and examining. I left and went to the kitchen for a beer , by the time I came back they had agreed that that one was indeed slightly bigger. My wife was pissed.

She put her t shirt back on and changed the subject. They asked to see them again several times since but it was a one night only viewing.

Normally our conversations about her past are centered around a particular night, holiday or guy.

Last night the conversation was more “mature” - talking about our numbers, our outlook on sex when we were younger…

My wife has big numbers - best estimate is that she’s slept with 80-100 men before we met when she was 25. But deep down I know she wasn’t a really dirty girl- unlike some here there were no trains, gangbangs or threesomes - and last night I asked her how she got those sorts of numbers when, as she says herself - she wasn’t a slut.

She broke it down-

6 steady boyfriends, who on occasion she cheated with on - just because there was an opportunity and she was attracted to another guy she sometimes ended up cheating and couldn’t help it.

Then there were boys she went on dates with - maybe one date, maybe three or four. This could account for 40-50 guys - second date was a guaranteed fuck, a lot of first dates got one as well. These guys didn’t last long as she was always tempted to move on - see what else was out there. She admits she loved going on dates , the excitement of a new person , the attraction, betting them into bed and finding out how good they were. A couple of awful performers were ditched after the first date despite the date itself going well.

And then there were the one night stands, the guys who were in the right place at the right time. There could be another 40 of these men about. Always the result of a drunken night out and a mixture of good and bad experiences.

The main thing I got out of the conversation is how she thought just like a man - she wanted a hook up when she went out for a night, she hoped she’d be getting into bed with the guy who was taking her on the date, and when she she was dating someone she was always tempted by another - and she’d want get into bed with them as well.

Sp that’s how you sleep with 100 men between age 18-25 while having 6 steady boyfriends and claiming that you’re not a slut!!

It’s easy to become used to our partners past - sometimes even take it for granted.

But does any ever get a moment of clarity, sit back and think fuck, the woman I married, the mother of my kids really did all this stuff??

And even more mind blowing- the majority of the people in your life have no idea. I recently confided in a friend some of the stuff my wife has done in the past - he thought I was joking initially and genuinely wouldn’t have suspected her to have been like that.

I’m looking at her here doing normal house hold stuff and have to take a minute and think that this woman fucked around a hundred men, many of them whom she’d just met, she’s fucked a black guy just to try a huge cock, she’s been dumped by previous boyfriends because she couldn’t keep her legs closed.

And now she’s acting totally normal, going about her day just the same as someone who married their first love. Sometimes I just need to pinch myself and remember what I’ve got.

Lying on the bed and watching my 50 year old wife getting dressed for a night out on the town.

Looking at her choosing underwear and a cute outfit and thinking of the possibility that someone will hit on her later.

I can’t explain it but I’d love if another guy got to take her clothes off later tonight and enjoyed her mom bod before sending her back home to me.

My wife had taken over 50 feet of cock before we got together. That’s longer than a shipping container.

I asked my wife if she regretted any of her promiscuous past - 100ish men by the time she was 25. I was thinking that age would make her look back and think that she maybe could have been more selective or less of a “pleaser” to use her own terminology. Maybe regretted the amount of unprotected sex or the occasions that she needed a morning after pill.

But no - apparently she doesn’t regret anything. I’m glad she doesn’t, I’m happy she wouldn’t change anything and when I heard her saying it I immediately got hard as a rock.

Just thinking of other kinks that those of us interested in hotpast may have.

Even before I knew I had a hotpast kink I remember being turned on when other men checked out my now wife. I recall friends being annoyed that their girlfriends / fiancés were wearing revealing clothes where as I subtly encouraged mine to wear clothes that were on the riskier side of things or to go topless at a pool.

I later found out that the kink is candaulism.

Anyone have any others?