failed erection
I wasn’t going to bring this to reddit but i’m honestly feeling a bit insecure and could use some advice/opinions
Me 21f and my guy 23m have been together for a little over a year and 3 months! He’s my first and only sexual partner and it’s been great. Usually he’s fully erect before i’m even there and that stays the same the entirety of our time together! He’s currently in his final week before he graduates college…done with all classes and his sport. He still lives in the dorms and his roommates all moved out so he had me come there last night
when i get there were doing our usual little foreplay routine we like. But when i reach down to play with him I notice he’s not hard…like at all. Which threw me off because never once has he had trouble getting erect with me. I kept playing with it and i could tell he was starting to panic a bit because he was kissing me a lot harder + trying everything possible to get it up. no luck. At this point im visibly confused (and honestly self conscious) because again hes my only sexual partner and i’ve never experienced this before
So he ends up asking for head…i give it and he pretty immediately gets hard. He’s giving me lots of positive feedback. But when we tried to penetrate he kept partially losing the erection! I could tell he felt awful and he kept kissing me and trying to make it work. He finished and spent another minute or two kissing me but i think it was pretty visible on my face that i felt insecure
I feel like it was probably just due to the stress and pressure he’s under as he kept getting phone calls from what sounded like an angry parent. He’s an international student so graduation comes with a lot of moving parts.
Is it possible it WAS just stress? I can’t help feeling like it was me and lack of attraction 🥲even if logically that didn’t seem to be it!
any comments are much appreciated but please keep it kind!! thank you