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I am a woman and to me an orgasm is when you reach peak pleasure and feel yourself “go over the edge”, a feeling of release, a pulsating feeling followed by feeling too sensitive to continue. It leaves me feeling very satisfied. This is what I experience solo and have experienced with partners also.

But sometimes when my boyfriend touches me it will reach a point where it feels amazing and then I become too sensitive to continue…similar to an orgasm but without the pulsating and feeling of release. It doesn’t leave me feeling totally satisfied but I feel too sensitive for him to keep going.

Is that the same as an orgasm? Does anyone have any idea why it happens like that or how to fix it?