32 [M4F] #Illinois - Seeking Switch
Hey there— I’m a desi male, 32 years old, 5’9", around 200lbs and born to first generation immigrants. I do not drink/smoke/do drugs (minus occasional hookah). I exercise, have a post graduate degree, and am gainfully employed in corporate America. I'm in the West Suburbs of Chicago and have been for most of my life.
Religiosity; I'm Sunni and I consider myself to be moderately practicing. I commemorate major religious events and holidays and am culturally aware. I could always be doing better but recognize it's typically a work in progress for me. I see myself thriving with someone who might describe themselves similarly. I'm finding cultural familiarity to be important to me at this point in life.
Non-kink-wise; I've come to appreciate and enjoy the calmness in being a homebody as of late. But I do like to visit nature preserves or local shops on the weekends. I'm not on social media and consider myself to be a private person.
Why I'm posting; I'm seeking a discreet dynamic within discussed boundaries with a like-minded woman. I have been called attractive by both sexes. I gravitate towards discreet, promiscuous, women who know what they want but can also carry themselves professionally and in social situations. Nonjudgmental here; discretion is required and assured.
Kink-wise; Yes I was a wild boy. Yes I have a significant past. Now, I am much more laid back and mindful and I seek someone with similar experience and maturity. I am generally not submissive, but, I complement switch personalities very well. We can discuss specifics, interests, or topics in depth over dm, but generally, my mindset is to try (almost) anything once. I'm comfortable and confident about myself and am direct with communication. I appreciate the blunt, raw truth over anything else.
Interests; I am very much into exploring concepts of cuckolding/cuckqueaning, group play, hotwifing, cheating, chastity, sph, pegging, edging, denial, humiliation, water sports, and gloryholes to name a few, which enough for you to gauge how close or far apart we align on the spectrum. Admittedly, I tend to have very dark and twisted fantasies compared to most people. Almost nothing is too taboo.
Irl; Fantasy is, of course, often different than reality. Obligations in life can cause a bunch of constrains that do not allow for a 24/7 type of lifestyle. Which sounds exhausting anyway. My goal is to build familiarity with each other and build a strong foundation of trust for us to grow and explore so we can fulfill our deepest desires and fantasies, unapologetically and uninhibited.
Baseline; I'm a big believer that it's the mundane, ordinary day to day shit that we tweak to fit our interests, which leads to incredible experiences. While I don't live the life style 24/7, nor care to, my interests occupy my mind more often that not. So day-to-day for my idea of a good time is you laying between my legs and... while I... find a... for you to enjoy, while listing to you describe details of memorable experiences from your past or future desires. God. That's way more explicit than I intended for it to be when I read it back. But it's something you should know.
Limits; I am not into kinks that primarily focus on blood, poop, disease, and extreme bodily harm.
If I captured your attention this far, thanks for reading and good luck out there!
If I piqued your interest, DMs open.