u/TooScaredFor2nd

My partner and are both switches, they may be on this sub, so I am using a throw away for this. I recently got a collar from my partner. I do like the thought and it's very nice... But it's not my type of metal nor the type I had mentioned wanting... It is gold, a big out there gold. I always wear silver. Silver is very important to my culture (we got different cultures) silver was reclaimed and is a sign of protection. I do not have a habit of wearing gold, it is very very rare. I don't wanna be ungrateful but I'm truly sad they didn't notice I only wear silver or leather. Is it reasonable to be upset over this?