u/Trojan313131

You can read some of my recent posts but after a WILD trip to Paris, my 43 year old wife now has a 23 year old boyfriend, who she is going to see in NYC for a crazy weekend in about 2 weeks.

I was on a trip with my wife this weekend in Cabo, and she asked me to take some pictures of her, which is unusual for her. Some sexy pictures.

"I want to send him some sexy pictures"

This sent me. Sent the kids to the kids club and absolutely put her through the mattress.

Now that we are back, she is going to send the pictures to him. I can't wait...

My wife had an incredible first hotwife experience recently in Paris. She is 43, he is 23, which she was worried would be too young for her. But she is incredibly sexy, and he was intoxicated by her. They met in the bar area at the Park Hyatt in Paris while I sat at the bar, listening in a bit. She then took him up to the room and they had passionate, if brief, sex, while i sat and listened through the door (SO HOT). It was a dream experience and something I had been hoping for for years.

Since then, our sex life has been unreal. We've gone from 2-3 times a week to 2-3 times per day, she is glowing, absolutely loving the experience (for many years, i always felt like I was the one to push...now she is initiating conversation about it). And she is texting her boyfriend sexy things and getting really wet at warm doing it.

He's super into her, which is hot, and he has been really wanting to see her again. So we are setting it up. She is flying to NYC, I booked her a very nice hotel, and he is flying in from Paris. They will meet and have passionate sex for 4 days in the city. It's so exciting. She's excited. I'm excited. Her boyfriend is excited.

She's seeing her doctor this week to go on the pill as she wants him bare...and he's been mandated to get a test...

I recently wrote about my wife's first hotwife experience in Paris. She had been hesitant for eight years. We have done a LOT of dirty talk and various experiments over the years (including vising sex clubs & parties in the US and Europe). While we had many fun experiences (no sex), nothing ever really deeply satisfied either of us.

Until last week. In frustration with the Parisian sex clubs, we turned to Tinder. She found a perfect guy...young (23), respectful, tall, rugby player, great cock. The type of guy that you never see at a sex club. An alpha. He took charge, he was a man, and he fucked her.

Now she can't stop thinking about it. She's smitten, and she wants his cock. They have been texting non-stop. He was super into her, even the fact that she has 3 kids he really liked. She really like that he took control and wouldn't let me watch. She has a major crush on him. Which I'm all about. Makes it so much more hot for me that she's doing it for HER, not for ME.

Now they are planning to meet up again, which is wild. And the sex was brief, only lasting a few minutes - despite nice sexual chemistry, he came quite early. Which she found endearing, but she wants some good, deep fucking. Her past boyfriends have been bigger than me and were able to give her gushing, squirting internal orgasms...I have never been able to...but she thinks he will be able to. She's smitten.

It's wild to me that I felt like I had to "push" her for 8 years to be adventurous, and with one experience I almost feel like I have to reign her in (i do so more to tease her as she likes more when I tell her to "stop"...it makes her feel naughty, horny, sneaky). She's talking about going on the pill when he comes so they can fuck bare, and he can cum inside her.

I'm loving it. I like that she has a crush (I feel insanely secure in our marriage, true soul mates and best friends), but we obviously live in a simulation so why not have the most fun experiences possible while we are here?

Any tips for exploring this stage?

Holy crap.

We were in Paris recently and my wife and I started toying around with the idea of finding a third while I watch from the "cuck chair" in the hotel room. After some playing around on Tinder, she found a perfect guy: tall, former rugby player, 23 years old, Jacob Elorde vibes.

She matched with him and messaged him, asking if he would be find hooking up with her while I watched. He said he hadn't done that before, but agreed to do it.

An hour later, he met her for a drink at the hotel bar while I sat on the other side of the room. Instantly, I knew she was into him - she wasn't doing it for me, to please me, she was doing it because she was into him. Which made me jealous, but even harder.

About 45 minutes later, I look over and she and him are gone, up to the room. "He doesn't want you in the room, is that ok?". I agreed, but felt simultaneously jealous and turned on. I followed them 5 minutes later to listen outside the door, and I heard passionate kissing and lots of giggling ("is she fucking him? I can't tell").

I guess she heard me moving, and came to the door to tell me to leave, and I heard him lock the deadlock when the door closed, and she started laughing...so humiliating, so hot. She locked me out! I heard them going back to kissing...

My wife and I have been exploring the hotwife lifestyle for many years. It has mostly been fantasy, but she embraced attending sex clubs, primarily in Europe, and we had some fun experiences there, but never full penetration.

We were recently in Paris, and the sex club scene was a little "meh" and didn't hit the way we were hoping. On the last night, I suggested we try a different tack...Tinder. She was a little nervous, but was on board.

We found a perfect match...a tall, handsome 23 year old French guy, she is 40 but still stunningly gorgeous. She wasn't sure if I would be in the room or not, and he was uneasy about it. So I sat at the bar while they shared a table in the corner. She started giggling and laughing, and I knew I was cooked.

The date in the bar lasted longer than I expected, nearly 45 minutes, she was clearly having a nice time, until I overheard her ask "do you want to see the hotel room". My heart sunk and I got immediately rock hard. I looked over 3 minutes later and they were gone...

"He doesn't want you in the room, is that ok? she texted. "100%, no problem baby" I texted back. It made me a little nervous, but candidly even harder. I gave them 5 minutes, then followed them to the room, listening from the hall. I could hear giggling, passionate kissing, and conversation. It was the hottest thing I've ever experienced.

They ended up having sex, though it lasted only 5 minutes...he came a little early.

But from start the finish, the hottest experience of our sex lives, hands down. We both absolutely loved it (she loved it MORE than me)

Happy to take any questions...