u/Tropicaldaze1950

I don't want to be your baby's daddy. I don't want to be your 'forever' love. If you have serious psych issues which you're not dealing with, please don't contact me. I'm struggling, too, and I'm working on myself. Same applies if you have sexual issues or 'Daddy' issues, I'm not any woman's therapist. Be LOCAL, not 500 miles or thousands of miles away. I don't want you moving in with me, anyway!

I'm an atheist and a socialist. I don't eat healthy, I drink, but not excessively. Hangovers aren't fun. Had a few in my younger years. I'm moody. I get annoyed, easily. If you get on my nerves, I'll show you to the door. Sadness is my constant companion. Everyone who meant anything to me is gone or is exiting. Genuine friends are rare. Suffering is part of life, no matter how much you embrace positive vibes.

What am I looking for? Intelligence and humor are sexy. Kindness. Compassion. If you're incapable of putting yourself in someone else's shoes, dealbreaker. I only chat on Reddit DM.

I had several young women reply who were far from me, though in Florida. If someone is local, she can go back to where she lives and I can get my sleep or the cats and I can just enjoy the quiet. I like my privacy. I don't want a woman coming to spend the night or the weekend. I'm not bf material. After 33 years of marriage, I prize my breathing space.

As for specifics, I don't really have any. 18-40, maybe 50. I don't care about race, ethnicity, plain, pretty, petite or ample. Single, partnered...even married. It's about FWB or casual. Again, if you're local, we can see each other, frequently...or infrequently. I don't own you and you don't own me.

No professionals and not a sugar daddy. Local means in the vicinity. You come to me, not the other way around.

I can host, Not a sugar daddy. DM if you want to talk.

Let's talk and get to know each other. I'm on Reddit DM.

That's it. Also open for cute young twinks, femboys, CDs and transwomen. I can host. Not a sugar daddy. DM to chat.

It's. true; that's all I want. After 33 years of marriage, my wife now in memory care, I'm revaluating my life. I learned about myself over those three decades. My wife and I had a difficult marriage, for many reasons. We each contributed to the problems. The real answer would have been divorce, but we couldn't see a life without each other. We were hopeless. As my wife would say, "Who else would have us?" I realize she was more honest about our life and knew neither of us would find someone. It's funny and it's sad.

Yes; FWB/Casual. I like to sleep alone. My cats like life as it is, too. If I'm in a bad mood, I don't need to walk on eggshells. I don't need to look at the clock, I can eat the way I want. Would I want my wife back? Yes I would...but she's not coming back. This is my new life and I'm going to live it differently. No one owns anyone else. We give what we can to each other. Age range? When you're 75, a woman who's 55 is younger! I don't want to close any doors. Just see where this leads. DM me.

I host. If you want to talk, I only reply to Reddit DM. Not a sugar daddy, either.

Wife is in memory care after several years of my caring for her. That's all you need to know. This is Florida; many older people in the same boat. And don't judge me by my age. If I wasn't capable and functional, I wouldn't be posting.

If you're looking for someone to take care of you, it's not me, so please don't write. As in my title, LOCAL. I'm not about road trips to meet someone or weekend getaways. I'm comfortable in my condo near the beach, being with my two cats. I became an introvert 20 years ago in Maryland when I could no longer work. My wife and I enjoyed our home, backyard and caring, at that time, for 8 cats.

I don't see myself as BF material. I've learned enough in 33 years of marriage about myself and of the difficulties in a relationship. Simple and easy, now. FWB/something casual. I'm intelligent and articulate. I know a bit about a lot of subjects. DM is always open.

Ignore my age. I host in Cape Canaveral. Not a sugar daddy, either, so get that out of your head. If you want to talk, directly, I only respond to DMs on Reddit, not any other social sites.

I was sole caregiver to my wife of 33 years, for 3 1/2 years, as she descended into Alzheimer's. I placed her in memory care in January. Given that I'm grieving, I ask why I'm on this sub. I'm not looking for sympathy. Just NO. I miss what's missing; affection, laughter, conversation and intimacy. I might even have PTSD or CPTSD. I do have a 21 year history of treatment resistant bipolar. Caring for someone with Alzheimer's 24/7 is exhausting and quite stressful. If you're still reading, that's a good sign.

Home is my comfortable place. Me and my two cats. Got rid of cable because I only cared to watch movies and usually, the same movies I've seen many times before. My laptop is my portal to the world, along with my amateur (ham)radio station. I see myself as an oddball and a misfit. Not particularly social. I had a career over three decades ago as a courier in the Baltimore/DC area until running on adrenalin cratered my sleep, then mood, leaving me unable to work. That's the bipolar illness. It's the one occupation I enjoyed and looked forward to, everyday. We lived in Maryland, near DC, for 27 years. My wife worked for the federal government.

I don't know if I seek a young woman or mature, nor the nature of it, though I'd lean towards mature. Intelligent, with a great sense of humor, politically liberal/progressive/left wing, non-smoker, light or non drinker(my wife was an alcoholic), no sexual hang ups(she had issues). Any look, any race.