26 [M4A] #Minnesota #USA — Playful, loving, bratty Soft Dom looking for his fiery bratty sub
How's it going everyone? Let's jump right in.
What I'm Looking For
I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a D/s dynamic woven into it. For me, kink and romance go hand in hand. I'm a natural caregiver, so being a soft dom comes naturally.
As a dom, I don't want a slave, a doll, or a doormat. I'm looking for someone crafty and challenging. A Brat. I love the push and pull. I love taking care of and nurturing my sub. I'm not here to rewrite you or break you. I want to support you in becoming the best version of yourself. I want to be your safe haven and your home. the place you can be fully yourself. Praise and head pats are standard. For me, dominance means more when it's earned through respect and admiration, not demanded.
On the relationship side, I want someone emotionally intelligent, strong-willed, and open to growing together. Outside of kink, I show affection through quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation. Much like my preference for a brat, I've learned I need a partner who supports me but also pushes me and challenges me. Someone who flirts and banters back just as much and just as hard as I do.
I love learning and taking genuine interest in my partner, so ideally you've got hobbies different from mine.
To repeat, because I feel a lot of people who've replied in the past glossed over this, I am looking for someone fiery, smart, who loves challenges, who's independent and strong-willed. I'm not looking for someone meek or passive. I understand this might sound harsh, but I thrive off this type of personality. This is what I connect with best.
I’m most attracted to tomboys, and alt.
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About Me
I'm caring, playful, intelligent, and down to earth. I'm very much a go with the flow, give what I get type. I'm insanely curious and love learning or diving deep into topics. If you care about MBTI at all, I'm an INFP.
I'm a massive tease and a flirt. Honestly, I'm a massive brat myself. which is why I connect best with other brats. I love the games we play and the boundaries we push.
I'm introspective and introverted, with some anxiety and depression that I manage. So I can be quiet at times and keep to myself. I can also flip to a much more serious tone when the moment calls for it. I’ve been told that I have a warm and soothing feel.
For hobbies: I'm a nerd. Video games, anime, that whole world. I'm also massively into science, biology, animals, ghosts, myths, cryptids, and other fantasy and supernatural topics. I love long drives and exploring. I'm getting back into reading, getting more into working out, and picking up painting.
Physical description: 6'1", white, blond hair, red beard, glasses. I'm overweight at 225 lbs and actively working on improving myself. I've lost 105 lbs since I started.
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A Few Things to Lay Out
· Ages 20–27 only.
· Not interested in long distance. Minnesota or Midwest only.
· I'm pan, but currently only looking for women or trans fems. Unfortunately im decently picky when it comes to men.
· Not interested in DDLG dynamics.
· I want kids and a family someday, but I'm not ready to be a father yet. If you have kids, I must ask you to pass on this one.
· Absolutely no MAGA or Trump supporters.
· No smoking or drugs. Smoke of any kind gives me painful migraines. Drinking is perfectly fine.
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If anything caught your eye or you're curious about me, reach out. My inbox is open as long as this post is up. See you soon. Meow.