u/TurbulentDogg

Hey there! Name's Dakota! Im 21, Transmasc Nonbinary (He/It), and coming all the way from Minnesota! Im 5'3 (and a half!), chubby, white, brown wavy hair with brown/hazel eyes. (Happy to send pics in DMs!).

Im a mixed media artist, with primary focus on 3D modeling & printing. But, I'm also a poet, writer, photographer, aspiring voice actor, and have hopes to one day become a Video Essayist! I am unemployed due to disability (which I will explain more later). But, am still a fairly independent person in my general life.

As for my interest, I love music (will listen to most things), art (obviously, lol), video games, survivalism, horror, film, studying psychology, zoology, astronomy, and neuroscience. And am a radical inclusionist and pro kink activist!

Some of my favorites are:

- Music: STARSET, Crywolf, Tame Impala, Bad Omens, Blood Cultures, + more

- Games: The Long Dark, Minecraft, The Last Of Us, Subnautica, Life Is Strange, + more

- Shows: The Good Place, Jane The Virgin, Bluey (of course), Invincible, TADC, + more

- Movies: Project Hail Mary, Coraline, Midsommar, HTTYD, Spiderverse, + more

In general, I'm a very chill, patient, open minded person. But, I'm also very bubbly, curious, and adventurous. As some have described me, I am the "perfect blend of golder retriever energy, and a mysterious gremlin that hides in the woods". As, I'm very introverted but present as extroverted. And, a homebody who loves urban exploration an Rave/PLURR culture. Im also, very much a stoner, who does not drink.

My main love languages are: quality time, pebbling, caregiving, and teasing the heck outta my partner. I love to playfully make fun of friends/loved ones whenever I can :3

Little space

I revert to the ages of 4-7 in little space. Sometimes even younger, on rare occasion. My little space is 90% SFW, however I am very curious about exploring the NSFW side as well.

As a little, I'm very bubbly, curious, cuddly, clingy, sweet, but also very very VERRYYY bratty and stubborn. I tease, and hide, and bite (only if desired) :3 but, I also comfort, and cuddle, and like to show you all my stuffies and color things for you.

I believe that littles should look out for their caregivers, just as much as their caregivers look after littles. So, even though I may be stubborn, or bratty, or sensitive, I will always do my best to make it up to my daddy however I can.

I love using pacis, bottles, sippies, onesies, and dream of having my own kiddie playroom & crib. However, I'm not a fan of using diapers.

Along with ageplay, I'm also into Petplay and many other kinks. I'm very far from vanilla, lol. Though, that's a topic to explore later.

What I'm looking for in a caregiver

Im looking for someone who's caring, guiding, and communicative. Someone who is genuinely willing to talk through problems and foster a healthy dynamic based around enthusiastic consent, trust, and love. But, also someone who is silly, and fun, and enjoys teasing as much as I do. And someone who will wax poetic with me and get all existential with me as we stargaze on the rooftop of a building or car or cliff.

Appearance wise, I'm mostly interested in skinny or average sized guys. But, I don't mind some chub either. Otherwise, I don't really care much about appearance.

Additional info:

Health wise, I have a rare Circadian Rhythm Disorder called, Non 24 Sleep Wake Disorder. It causes my sleep schedule to drift further each day, til it revolves back around like a clock. Which means that I will not always be active during the same times each day. I also experience chronic pain, due to suspected hEDS. Along with some other minor health issues, including Autism, ADHD, C-PTSD, and other stuff. Ultimately, I'm still independent and capable of taking care of myself. But, I may require gentle assistance at times, as well as patience.

Im also part of a system.

**I believe that's everything!** If you have any questions or you want to get to know me, my DMs are open! I look forward to hearing from ya!

I am very fascinated by the world of Plurality, and tulpamancy. I've been wanting to develop a tulpa for a long while now, but, I've been struggling with getting in the right headspace, as a result of ADHD. So, I thought... Why not combine hypnosis and Plurality together?

I am well educated on modern tulpamancy and Plurality, as well as hypnosis. And I am well aware of the risks associated. I believe that tulpamancy would be a great benefit for my life, and I will treat them with love and respect. I battle a lot of loneliness and issues around self care and maintaining good habits. And I believe a tulpa could be a great reminder

I'm mainly looking for audio, but text works as well! Also I am NOT interested in anything sexual!

**SOME IMPORTANT INFORMATION;**

I enjoy a quick induction (5 minutes tops). I don't like long countdowns or countdowns with interruptions between numbers, or being told to sink "deeper". Rather, I instead like to be guided into trance through means of repeating back what you say, or repeating mantras over and over. Or, counting up/down in unpredictable ways (like being told to go down a step, then up, down down down, up up, down, up, down down etc)

Also an important note, I do like clicking/snapping and other repetitive sounds. However, I need it to be very faint background noise or else it just scares me lol.

I would prefer if suggestions are kept vague (more neutral pronouns and terminology) so that I may use it to develop multiple different tulpas in the future. However, I do have a few tulpas in mind already that we can focus on if that makes it easier!

I will go into more detail in DMs, as for general personality and roles they would have. Just as to avoid writing a super long paragraph here lol.

Comment if you're interested in helping me out!! :D

I've been wanting to explore ageplay. I have a lot of childhood trauma and my therapist recommended it to me and I think it would be a really great way for me to reclaim my trauma. Problem is, I'm having a really hard time getting into little space. Mainly because I need that dynamic of being cared for, and slowly lulled into it. Otherwise I just don't feel safe on my own. A lot of my trauma stems from not having a proper caregiver, and not having my needs met. And my main draw to ageplay is the aspect of having someone who can take care of me, guide me, and help coax me into that space. But... I don't have anyone who can do that for me. All of my friends are either subs/littles themselves, or not into ageplay in any sense.

Since I don't really have anyone to act as a caretaker, and fetlife has been atrocious for me (might be a Midwest issue), I'm not sure what to really do. Most everything else I'm interested in,I can do solo but I'm not sure how to fulfill that dynamic on my own. I'd love some suggestions!!!