u/Tycho_Prince

(Females only. Non negotiable)

I’m not a fan of so much of the stigma involved with the kink/bdsm community however I believe there is a lot of value in certain dynamics that facilitate and nurture growth.
I’ve trained as a life coach and love challenging people to grow and overcome the challenges in their life but I find so much of the time that we need to balance challenge with safety and support which the life coaching dynamic doesn’t afford.

I’ve been involved in a number of different dynamics in relationships and casually and enjoy reflecting on the how certain elements help us to grow and sometime, how the absence of these elements can hinder our growth.
If our situation is all challenge and no support, we’ll fail to grow. If our situation is all safety without challenge, we’re bored. I’m looking to explore a dynamic with someone who wants to grow. I would gently push you to try new things and be open to new experiences, sexually, ofcourse but also intellectually and in terms of your character.

If you haven’t gathered by now, I’m not afraid to use my mind to think or afraid of big words or ideas. I also know when to stop thinking and use my actions. But if you’re someone who believes here is only value in not using your mind, well the we’ve come to your first lesson.

Obviously, I appreciate that visuals are important and that we would need to be attracted to each other. I’m 6’2” and haven’t missed a day of gym in years. Happy to show you the definition in my abs but don’t want to make that stuff public.