So I came here for the thrill, the secrecy and the stolen moments. I'm over telling myself “I’ll totally stay emotionally detached because I am a mature adult with self-control.” I don't expect things to get complicated or lines becoming blurred, but I wouldn't mind if they do. It’s not dramatic or explosive. It’s quieter than that. Caring how their day went. Noticing when their tone shifts. Missing them in moments that have nothing to do with sex or secrecy. Wondering whether what we’re doing is sustainable, or just slowly changing shape. I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life, including my own. I also don’t want to pretend this is something it’s not. I know feelings don’t automatically mean expectations, but they do change the stakes.
Reach out if you can relate, be willing to share a picture at some point and please have a costco membership. Mutual attraction is important but not as much as good conversation. Witty banter is much appreciated/reciprocated and goes further than sexting. Bonus points if you're easy on the eyes (lets be real that matters), you smell good and you can hold a secret without writing it down. Please be similar in age or at least mature enough that doesn't make me feel like an old man. Preferably someone local, but willing to try distance for the right person
As for me I'd much rather you ask than having me ramble on about myself. I’m tall, trimmed beard, no tattoos or piercings, brown hair, brown eyes, and a latino if that even matters. Equal parts charm and chaos, with just enough self-awareness to make it endearing. I’m attractive in a “you’d notice me twice” way, smart enough to hold a real conversation, and funny enough that you’ll accidentally relax around me. I'm a soccer dad and I wear glasses cause I legally can't drive without them.
Anyways I hope this finds you well, share a cool recipe with me and tell me what item you must grab every time you walk into your local costco.