u/UnassumingSadist

Don't worry if this doesn't match you perfectly, If ANY part of it resonates with you feel free to reach out. I'm always happy to chat with like-minded people.

Lets try some radical honesty for a change of pace. I'm quiet and private about many of my desires in real life, but I don't have to be so here, so why not just put it all out there? First of all, I'm married but ENM. She's fully supportive of me having other sexual partners. I'm more then okay with someone else in a similar situation, but also open to someone single or any other compatible life situation.

Second of all, I love chubby women. Cute, curvy, with huge soft tits and a big fat ass just begging for the paddle. Not a strict requirement, as I like all kinds of body types, but BBW's are a personal favorite. If you enjoyed being verbally degraded for your body, I would enjoy doing so, but it would always be blatantly obvious how turned on you made me. I wouldn't really be able to hide how badly I needed to strip you naked, expose your body for me to inspect and abuse, touch you all over, and hurt you all over.

I'm a bit nerdy myself (Software Engineer, wanna-be Woodworker, interest in Mathematics, Archeology, and a range of other topics) and I like other nerdy people. People who are passionate about their interests, enjoy learning new things, making things, exploring the world. I want someone I can be real friends with.

I also want someone who wants to open up about her kinks and needs, share her fantasies and fetishes. Someone who has experienced rejection or judgement for it in the past and just really wants someone who not only won't judge, but will likely be into all her depraved desires.

Being kinky and nerdy doesn't always equate to being a social butterfly, and that's fine. I honestly kind of enjoy women who are a bit awkward. Maybe you need some help opening up, someone who will reassure you that your fetishes don't make you a bad person, or just someone who will do his best to understand what you actually mean when it's hard for you to explain something clearly. I also don't mind when that is accompanied by a desire for attention, a desperation to be accepted. So many women try to hide when they feel needy because, strangely, a lot of men don't seem to understand it. But I personally can't understand how someone could not enjoy being needed.

I'm a sexual sadist with decades of experience with kink, and I'm looking for someone I can explore the extremes with. I need a woman who wants to be the victim, wants to feel scared when I suddenly start grabbing her and yanking her clothes off, wants to struggle and try to escape as I expose and violate her. I want a woman who will beg, plead, and try to bargain her way out of the humiliating punishments and abuse, knowing that doing will just make me enjoy it more. I want a woman who needs to be broken, needs to cry, and needs to know that her helpless uncontrolled sobbing only marks where things really being.

Don't worry if this doesn't match you perfectly, If any part of it resonates with you feel free to reach out. I'm always happy to chat with like-minded people.

Lets try some radical honesty for a change of pace. I'm quiet and private about many of my desires in real life, but I don't have to be so here, so why not just put it all out there? First of all, I'm married but ENM. She's fully supportive of me having other sexual partners. I'm more then okay with someone else in a similar situation, but also open to someone single or any other compatible life situation.

Second of all, I love chubby women. Cute, curvy, with huge soft tits and a big fat ass just begging for the paddle. Not a strict requirement, as I like all kinds of body types, but BBW's are a personal favorite. If you enjoyed being verbally degraded for your body, I would enjoy doing so, but it would always be blatantly obvious how turned on you made me. I wouldn't really be able to hide how badly I needed to strip you naked, expose your body for me to inspect and abuse, touch you all over, and hurt you all over.

I'm a bit nerdy myself (Software Engineer, wanna-be Woodworker, interest in Mathematics, Archeology, and a range of other topics) and I like other nerdy people. People who are passionate about their interests, enjoy learning new things, making things, exploring the world. I want someone I can be real friends with.

I also want someone who wants to open up about her kinks and needs, share her fantasies and fetishes. Someone who has experienced rejection or judgement for it in the past and just really wants someone who not only won't judge, but will likely be into all her depraved desires.

Being kinky and nerdy doesn't always equate to being a social butterfly, and that's fine. I honestly kind of enjoy women who are a bit awkward. Maybe you need some help opening up, someone who will reassure you that your fetishes don't make you a bad person, or just someone who will do his best to understand what you actually mean when it's hard for you to explain something clearly. I also don't mind when that is accompanied by a desire for attention, a desperation to be accepted. So many women try to hide when they feel needy because, strangely, a lot of men don't seem to understand it. But I personally can't understand how someone could not enjoy being needed.

I'm a sexual sadist with decades of experience with kink, and I'm looking for someone I can explore the extremes with. I need a woman who wants to be the victim, wants to feel scared when I suddenly start grabbing her and yanking her clothes off, wants to struggle and try to escape as I expose and violate her. I want a woman who will beg, plead, and try to bargain her way out of the humiliating punishments and abuse, knowing that doing will just make me enjoy it more. I want a woman who needs to be broken, needs to cry, and needs to know that her helpless uncontrolled sobbing only marks where things really being.